What do I do?

My bf is really sweet and nice but I don't like him anymore. I know he'll understand if I dump him, but my friends won't. They'll get mad at me and say that I used him. Do I just dump him and not care what my friends say?

There not the ones dating him. If you don't like him anymore then dump him. It's not up to your friends who you date or don't date or when you do either.

It's none of your friends business. You can't be expected to date someone just to make them happy. Wow, just break up with him if you don't like him, I'm sure they'll get over it.

even tho he'll get hurt--but to make ur self free and happy--BREAK UP---is the only soulution--

or if u dun want to hurt him much
find him a gurl dan break up!!

well it is your life if you dont wont to date him anymore than tell hem and them!! if they are really your friends then they will understand that you dont like him like that any more!!!

Thanks guys! I'm going to break up with him tomorrow if I see him. I'm kinda nervous though :/

well i was gonna say listen to your heart! its your relationship and if their true friends then they'll understand why you did it! =] good luck!!

well how did it go? good i hope becouse i know how it fills not to like someone but go out with them i wish you good luck:)

thanks! It went fine. He's kinda sad but not too bad and my friends are mad at me. I've been trying to find out all day but they won't tell me. It's confusing/

Sometimes you just have to do whats best for you, and not listen to anyone elses criticism. Your friends are not the ones that have to waste their time on him.

One of them is trying to convince the other that it was because I wasn't happy. I think they're mad becuz they're best friends with him too and they think it'll be awkward if we ever hang out together. I know it will be for a while but I hope not forever

I agree with fire.they are not dating him.all that matters is your fellings.

I think that it's not what your friends say or won't it's what u want. so if u don't want to be with him the break up with him . It's the best thing that u could do in a situation like that.i think that it would be better to dumphim then it is to contintue dating him and cheat on him isn't it . well i think so.

yeah cheating would have been horrible. but he's been really mean about it. here's our last convorsation:

him: I've been thinking about you all day,. I miss you so much. Why did you break up with me?
Me: because... I don't like you like that anymore.
Him: it seems that all girls are here for is to screw me over.
Me: uhh... some girl will come a long someday!
him: but I'll end up hating her.
me: well then another girl will end up coming!
Him: i don't know why I started going out with you in the first place. you're a b****.
me: sorry?
him: It's not okay. I freeking loved you and all you did was break my heart. I hope you're happy.

then he signed off. it made me feel REALLY bad. but then i thought about it and realized, "of course he's gonna be mad I broke up with him." but he'll get over it./ I have to find him another girl.

You don't have to find him another girl. He has no right to make you feel guilty, and perhaps it's a good thing you broke up with him.

your friends will understand you..
and they are not the one who's in your position...
because if they were in your position ryt now they will do the same thing...
and its hard fool your own self...
and also it will hurt your boyfriend in some way when he will start to feel that you dont like him anymore...and your just being with him because of your friends...

Yeah... thanks guys. He's still pretty pissed off but my friends are starting to understand. And he's already found himself a girl, but his best friend said it was to make me mad. I told him to tell him I wasn't.

All your doing is using him more by staying with him! If your friends are good friends they wont get mad and they'll understand! Do what ur heart tells you to do!

OK EVERYONE: she already said they broke it off, i think she doesn't need advice about how to break up with him anymore. but Aera, it's not your job to find him another girl. He probably needs some time to be single anyway. He'll get over you and find someone who loves him someday. I think you should back off and try not to be involved with him at all if you want to help him. It's hard to get over someone when they're still hanging around.

thanks. yeah he's getting over it! He's going to a different school next year, so I won't see him much, which will probably be good for him. He said he wishes he never went out with me, and I kinda agree. we'd still be friends if we hadn't. but It'll be okay. it usually is! thanks guys ^^