skittles
17 years ago
thats so confusing...i dont know if its possible to like two people at the same time. coz im in that same situation right now. do these two things to see if it helps you out. close your eyes and picture yourself really happy and in love. wich one do you see yourself with. now ask yourself this question: who do you love more? |
Jaime
17 years ago
I say break it off with your boyfriend, because you are being unfair to him by telling another guy you love him. And then cut it off with your ex, because to me it sounds like you need to slow down a bit. Take a breather, stay away from both of them, and figure out what you want before you jump into another relationship. |
Daenerys Stormborn
17 years ago
sounds like maybe your new boyfriend is a rebound because you aren't over your ex and you needed a replacement. maybe not, but either way, you shouldn't be with someone if you aren't over a past relationship...not even that, but you are still pursuing your ex while with a new guy. there is physical cheating, and emotional cheating..telling your ex that you love him is cheating on your new boyfriend and playing with your ex's mind. you should figure out what you really want before you end up hurting one, two, or three people you care about. |
Daenerys Stormborn
17 years ago
Ok, well that's good then. Sounds like you've got it figured out, and I think you are doing the right thing. Cutting things off with your ex is the only way you will get over him completely. |
Brandi
17 years ago
thank you so much for the advise but even if i don't talk to him for months my heart is still in love with him we wrer together almost 3 yrs (my ex) sunday will make 2 months that my boyfriend and i have been dating and i would so hate it if he was tellin his ex he still loved her.... i kno wat i need to do |