hmmmm

ok so theres this boy, he's one of my best mates and we hang about together alot of the time. i tell him everything and always feel i can trust him. he makes me laff and seems to always hav time to listen to me n keep me company..
i no what your thinking.....wot can the problem be?
the problem is that no1 likes me like that. if u saw me you'd know y. i reli hate the way i look and even stoped going out for a bit, they tried to say i had something rong with me. i hav even concidered going annarexic because i hate the way i look. i hav sent this message because my friends wouldnt understamd how i feel.
im sorry if this sounds like a waste of your time but i jus needed people to turn to.......
xx[X]xx

you know what i agree with you, you probably wont have a chance with him. Not because of the way you actually look but the way you think you look. I know alot of girls who some would consider pretty ugly, but they dont because those girls think (whether they believe it or not) That there somewhat attractive. my advice is before you even start considering Dating, work on being happy with yourself. If your not happy with yourself you're only gonna drag your significant other down with you.
-Al.

Learn to be comfortable with yourself, trust me that takes a lot of time. Don't assume you can't get a guy because of your appearance, they are not all shallow, really!

Take your time, and tell this guy when you think you are ready. And none of this crap about becoming anorexic, that's just stupid, don't even bother with it.

what half of everyone I know say I'm good looking 'cause they think so but I hate my apperance, if he's a good friend he'll probably like your apperance no matter what!

well i know most people don't listen when people say this but, it's your inner beauty that counts. I used to not listen to that either, but then i tried it cause i was REALLY ugly and I had nothing else to do. But i did that and gained confedence and even got a whole new style. But yeah, i know that sounds stupid but try it, it worked for me. Oh, and DONT go annarexic, it sucks.