one of my good friends always does this to me advise?! plz

  • chay
    17 years ago

    well it started when I was a freshman I had a huge cruch on this guy and I told one of my good friends and she told me she liked him also and me being a good friend I left him alone and nowww. I was "talking"to this guy and me and him were getting along really good I was just waiting for tha right time to make us offical b.c he wanted to be with me but once I was going to tell my fried about me n him she blurbs out she n love with him even doe she don't no him and all so again I left him alone b.c I called my self being a good friend they went out for 2 weeks n now its ova and he constantly tells me all he wants to do is be with me . But I don't wanna be messed up n do that to ma friend knowing they went out. But I have deep feelings for him and I don't know what to do

  • Shae
    17 years ago

    Don't tell her. I've been like that once before. But I realized it wasn't going to get me anywhere so I stopped. If she was your friend she wouldn't be doing that... If you have deep feelings for him don't let anything get in your way and go for it...

    Shae

  • UnderAge Dying
    17 years ago

    ^^^TOTALLY agree.

    number one, no one deserves
    to be treated like that by a "friend"
    number two, obviously you guys are meant to
    be together if both of you feel that way
    screw your friend, you didnt do what your
    heart wanted the first two times so do somethin
    for yourself!
    you deserve it!

  • chay
    17 years ago

    Thanks!!
    Idk its just hard for me to screw a friend over . And yea she not really a friend I guess . And I've told ma self the same thing ova n ova again but I don't

  • chay
    17 years ago

    I really what to be with him, he's all I think about .. And there was a time I completly stoped talking to him b.c I was trying to stop liking him but that just hurt tha both of us wrose . But do u think I should tell her

  • chay
    17 years ago

    So don't tell her.
    Lol how do I avoid her knowing then were always around eachotha we live like a block apart

  • Pianist
    17 years ago

    (Asks self question)

    Why are friends torn apart over the opposite sex Nobody?

    (Answers self)

    Because they are not actual friends, Nobody.

    (Replies to self)

    Ah! I see now. Thank you for your wise input, Nobody.