Heidi Harover
17 years ago
Okay, this is a desision that i'm gonna have to make today. My boyfriend is being a total butt. He all of a sudden has to work everyday from the time he leaves school til midnight. So he has no time at all to talk to me. He also has a HUGE trust problem and thinks i'm cheating on him(which i'm not). But he doesn't believe me and "doesn't know" if he still wants to be with me. He never breaks up with girls, though. So, my point: today I'm gonna talk to him. I'm going to tell him that I really want to stay with him, but it's not working out right now. Then I'm gonna ask him if he's gonna want to try to work things out to make our relationship better. The thing is, i dont know if i'm making the right decision and i dont know how to say it. PLEASE HELP SOON. I wont be on the computer for too long |
Lovely Bones
17 years ago
^ couldn't agree more with Bob. |
Daenerys Stormborn
17 years ago
he has priorities, but if he wants to fit you in with those priorities and he is willing to sacrafice enough time to keep you both happy in the relationship, then wonderful. talking to eachother and understanding eachother is the only way you will solve your problems. if you aren't cheating on him, you need to reassure him of that or even act offended if he accuses you too irrationally. just talk to him and ask him he wants to work things out, then go from there. you shouldn't have to put up with this "i don't want to be with you, but i'm too scared to hurt your feelings and break up" bull shit. playing with your feelings is hurting them. |