Need Help Please!

*silly laugh* hehe, I shouldn't really be answering this kind of question... but what'd hack ;) I think you should tell him what you want exactly, make it clear that you want him to be very gentle when he touches you... guys are normally slow... in the brain that is :D:D... so you just make sure that he really understands what you are talking about :) ...... *whispers* maybe you can hold his hand so he knows how gentle he should be... ;) okay, that's enough :D Take care :D

He might be a wonderful guy in other ways, BUT this is the clear sign of a red flag. There is baggage that goes along with rough sex.

well then, bring it up again because in a relationship you MUST be able to communicate and understand each others problems, youve got to remember that if he loves you then he will understand and co-operate with you. alll i can say is talk to him and MAKE him listen, usually works, and if he doesnt listen then theres defenatly a problem outside of the topic, but thats just my stab at it! gd luck neways, nikki xXx