I really need your advice....

Well how do I start this, people always sees me as this good girl. But the thing is I like this guy at school, but he's one of the trouble makers in school, as I say thug. We share the same friends and everything, I mean we're even friends. But to tell you the truth I have gone out with thugs before, but i never felt anything like this before and I guess it's kind of worrying me. I see something different in him than the ones I used to go out with, he seems different from all of them. But I don't want my mind or feelings to play tricks on me and leave me with a broken heart. Everyone says at school we have something going on that maybe we're not telling anyone but no matter how much I actually do want something to happen I just say that nothing is going on(which is actually true) but they don't believe me, they say he likes me but it's kind of hard for me to believe people (in a school that I go to). I just don't know what to do anymore, I know maybe I might sound stupid or it doesn't make any sense but I do really need another person's point of view in my situation... And this guy is the guy I wrote about in my poem "I Hate.."

Well here is my opinion and that's not saying it's going to be a good one. For some reason I always end up with the 'thug' type of guys, and judging by what you've said and your poem it does sound like he cares about you as more of a friend. If it were me I would just casually bring it up, maybe in a joking way, and ask him about his feelings toward you. Don't set yourself up for heart break though. Keep your feelings out of it and get prepared for what he has to say. I wouldn't believe what everyone else says though. That could be the main thing to get you in trouble. Let me know if you need anything :) Hope all goes well.

Thanks Silence I'll try to up on that advice...

I would like to hear more if any of you would like to give any more advice in the suituation that I'm in...

wow. This was my exact situation over a year ago. He was always the thug type, fighter type. But i still liked him even though he wasn't my type. We've been dating for over a year. Just talk to him about it. if you guys are friends, just bring it up casually or something. And if you do decide to go out, discuss a way for you to compromise your...activities.
Hope it helps
Shay

nice one babygirl---

i think you'd better talk to him about his luv life--befrore you bring out ur feeligs for him--

i mean--if u start talking about his love life--dan i think you'l soon know about--shuld u tell him ur feelings ooor not??--well sori if dis doesn't help==im in a mood to giv advice---but got lil time0-

I say talk to him about it. As long as he hasn't done anything seriously wrong (I'm not sure exactly why you consider him to be a 'thug'), then there's no reason for you not to.

Nice girls always end up liking the bad boys...

Thank you very much, I greatly appreciate the advice and I will take up on it...This really helped me a lot..... And yea I call him a thug because he's the kind of guy who always gets into trouble, into fights, and plus he's G... If you know what I mean... I know pretty crazy, but it's life :) and somehow it is true that good girls falls for the bad boys (opposites attract) I'm a sucker for trouble makers... Well thank you again for the advice...