I need some help

  • The Rising Pheonix
    17 years ago

    Hi, I like this one girl and I keep buying her gifts, when I asked her if she liked me she said only as a friend. This was a while back ago, but today when I was leaving school she stopped me and said hi, and I said hi back, she then said "Why arent you saying hi to me anymore?" I told her that I barely see her around anymore. When I told her that she looked hurt, I want to ask her out again but I am getting mixed signals. What do you think I should do?

  • catherine
    17 years ago

    i've been in that situation before....well all i can say is that be your self...
    if u want to go out with her then ask her...
    but i know that ur somehow scared because of wat happened to the two of you before...
    as wat i have said, be yourself..and think wat will make you happy...so that u wont regret and say "if only........."

  • Tony E
    17 years ago

    why do you keep buying her gifts? Doing that doesn't let you know if they want to be around you for you or because you are getting them stuff. DON'T buy her something if you're not going out for no reason. If it's her birthday or graduation then it's okay that just shows that you care. Stop buying her gifts for no reason, tell her you still like her and see what she says. If she says no again you're not really losing anything seeing as you never see her anyway.

  • Vic
    17 years ago

    ask her out again.. duh.. no harm.. maybe.. psychological harm if the reply is negative.. but overall no real harm.. :)