im so confused n screwed up help please?

  • Sarah
    17 years ago

    well i been with my boyfriend for 2years and im bored of our relationship and i dont reli love him nemore and i dont think i ever did, but i cant break his heart my mum is tellin me to stay wiv him but im not happy wit him, i like some other lad who i dunno if he likes me and now i dunno whats goin on in my head all my mates r like get rid of ur bf im like but its not that easy, what should i do?

  • sweet_rebellion
    17 years ago

    First of all, if you don't really love him then your basically just playing him. Just be nice to him and tell him that You don't feel the same way for him anymore and that you think you should stop dating. You don't have to do it harshly or anything. Just tell him that you did not want it to end that way but you can still be buds and all. Let him know that you really enjoyed dating him and that he is a really nice guy (if he is). But if you don't like him anymore then you shouldn't stay with him just because everyone else says to or not. Do what YOU think is right. Your the only one that can make that decision. But I am not saying that it won't be hard because I KNOW it will be hard and that your confused. I hope everything turns out OK for you! Let us know the outcome!

    sweet_rebellion

  • Mommy And Me
    17 years ago

    well... it is that easy. as you stated you don't thin kyou ever really loved him... yes it will be a little difficult because you have been together for so long... but in the for the most part. if you don't like him that way no more.. then it is a waste of both yours and his time to stay together.

    -Terra

    ps- your mom should also understand with some time added on ... for you two have been together for so long she may sorta see him as a son in a way... but again in the end.. it is about you being happy... she isn't the one dating him.

  • Vic
    17 years ago

    no love = no point in keeping a relationship
    boredom = no point in keeping a relationship
    the love lost it's luster.....