is it wrong?

i dont' know if there is another post on this or not, and if there is i'm terribly sorry....Anyway. Sometimes I just want to be able to love somebody without having to share him or her with anybody else (for example, my boyfriend).
I guess what i want to know is am i being completely selfish by this? Is it bad to want somebody that you don't have to really share time with other people when you are around them (if that even makes sense)?

I guess it depends what your motives are. Like, if you just want her to yourself because you really love her and want at least sometime where it's just you and her, then I think that's fine. It's normal to be with the person you want to be with. But if you're keeping her from everyone else out of pure selfishness and jealousy, such as keeping her from having other friends, then that is definately wrong.

Thanks. I'm not trying to keep them from having other friends. That's not my intention at all, but when his friends are around, he pays very little attention to me...I'm going to a christmas party at his house tonight and a couple of his guy friends are coming. I'm just scared that i'm going to be ignored...

I feel exactly the same as you.. and it's still hard every now and again but i just talk to him when i feel like we need some time alone and it turns out half the time he feels the same.
Good luck

Oh I'm sorry, I never read your full name and thought that you were a boy :/ thats why I was always refering to a "her" in my response lol. But yeah, I understand hwo you feel and it's nto wrong at all. But boys are boys, his friends are important to him and when he comes around he'll pay attention to you =)

It is not a bad thing at all. =]
It shows how much you care for the person and how much you want to share with that person - everything.
My boyfriend and I are the same way; we hate it when the other is away from the other out doing something.
It's not a bad thing at all; it shows great love and care.

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

TheEcstasyOfSuicde, thats a cool name.. i wish i had a name................ oh wait i do!!!!! not as good as that though,...

Erm.. Thank you. =]

xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

Thanks to everyone...It actually went okay tonight. He didn't completely ignore me and I let him have his space to an extent. It wasn't wonderful, but at least he didn't blow me off... ^_^