2 friends

i had 2 friends commit suicide this summer, and im super confused on how to get over the fact that they would do that. They did it like 2 weeks apart, and the second one did it almost exactly like the other. the second one almost lived, they doctors brung him back to life, and he was steady, but then the doctors gave him too much adranline, or something like that and it made his heart stop, i want to blame the doctors for the death of one friend, and i want to blame a guy who killeed himself 2 years ago for the first guy. And I feel bad for blaming other people. any advice?

No offense but you need to find some normal people as friends. People who commit suicide have no one to blame but themselves for dying. Ive never lost a friend to suicide but if I did I wouldnt be the least bit of grief, they threw their life away and theres no good reason to do that. All suicide does is make other mad sad or feeling guilty. And you shouldnt blame the doctors, they gave it their best. Its not their job to help suicidal people, its their job to say lives and they still gave him a shot. You should be happy he lived just a few seconds longer in the hospital. You shouldnt blame anyone but the people themselves, you are solely responsible for your own destiny and so were they. Sorry if this sounds mean but thats life for you. Sorry bout your losses. Peace

i've lost a good good friend to suicide,one of my older brothers,my uncle,my friends dad and my friends uncle...plus my mom has been hopitalized many times for suiced attemps...and i've tried to and yes others may think it's very selffish,but would you really want someone to stay in pain forever...yes theres meds and you could tal to someone but those don't always work...now i'm trying so very hard to accpet that my friend and brother and the others are in a better place for them selfs now yes it's very very hard on the people that they have left behind(words can not explain how sad i feel)but they are out of there pain now...and like the last poster said i bet the docter feels down right horrible...i really don't know what to say just try and think that they are in a better place now...a place of rest

I told you I dont want to be offensive, but its the truth and you know it is too. Sorry if I put it in a mean way. Peace

God damn tears. That's a shit load of people trying to kill themselves.

What on earth do they feed you folks up in Canada?

good question ^

My life has been effected by people self abusing themselves, friends, family, drugs, cutting...what I do is I try to forget their deaths and bad acts and remember all the good things about their life...

And its okay to feel like blaming someone, its natural, its only human....

and to all others please don't poke fun at people, death is outhere sooner or later it effects everyone... be a decent human and try to comprehend the feelings of others.

~peace out~

I agree with broken reflection.

I lost one of my closest friends nearly 3 weeks ago and i miss her immensely. she had such a hard time, then got diagnosed with all these conditions, shoved on pills but it didnt help her. she tryed cutting and the scars on her arms were horrific but it was her way of coping. Just as she was getting better and was making plans for her life she went out and killed herself. I still can't understand why she did it so suddenly when things were looking up. I've thought and cryed about it until my brain hurts and still i'm no closer to the answer. You might think it's selfish, but if you are close to someone and know how much pain and hurt can drive you to do anything you would understand why people do it.