I think its time to let him go

  • Jus2Much
    17 years ago

    I dnt knw wat advice im really lookin 4 but i jus wanna knw wat sum1 else thinks.
    Well me n dis boy have been off n on 4 da longest (bout a year) but dis summa we took a long break i guess u can say. Everytime we see each other in unexpected places all these old feelings come back n i start to miss him jus wen in think im movin on. We talk still every once in a while, but we're not the same n e more. He runs da street with who knws who n keep askin me about da big thing almost every teenage relationship deals with... SEX. I neva gave it up 2 him or n e 1 else bcuz jus wen everything seems so rite dey jus mess it up. Sooo. he keeps sayin how he loves me n misses me but all he talks about is tryna get n mah pants n dats not about 2 happen. He's also n2 dis gang n has lost all self respect. Should i jus cut him off completely or give him da jus friends card?I will always have feelings 4 him but i refuse to apologize 4 wat i wont compromise n i feel dat if he really cared he would respect how i feel.

  • Pianist
    17 years ago

    God lord woman. You slowed my excellent reading speed down to a turtle's shitting process.

    You know exactly what advise you are looking for and it is exactly what you will receive. Oh I can see it now. This post shall be riddled with, "He's not worth it. Leave him!" and "If all he wants is sex he's not worth your time."

    Why create another post that shall be spammed with the general teenage poet society's opinion; particularly when those opinions will be one in the same?

    Who is going to tell you to stay with a young man who is involved in gangs, wants your tang, and doesn't respect you?

    "Don't know what advice I'm looking for."

    Palease. Tis rediculous how contradictory it is.

  • melly
    17 years ago

    i really hate to agree but i do about the turtle and the rest of it

    but just get over him and move on girl

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    "God lord women. You slowed my excellent reading speed down to a turtle's shitting process."

    lmfao, that made me laugh Nobody

    But seriously. I think you already the answer if you read your title.

  • eternalxxpromise
    17 years ago

    "God lord women. You slowed my excellent reading speed down to a turtle's shitting process."

    roflmfao!
    good one. hahha

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    `You slowed down my excellent reading speed down to a turtle's shitting process.`

    OMFG. That is hilarious.

  • xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex
    17 years ago

    ^^^
    Agreed, hilarious. Seems everybody loved it, Nobody.

    "Who is going to tell you to stay with a young man who is involved in gangs, wants your tang, and doesn't respect you?"
    ^^^
    I very much enjoyed this as well. I love the way you are so bluntly honest. It puts a smile back on my face everytime. =]
    And, you are very much right. Blunt and right on track. Kudos.

    xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

  • Jus2Much
    17 years ago

    im glad u all found it fun e b cuz i think ur rude mayb i should b a comedian b cuz i have nu10 betta 2 do but sit on poems n quotes all day (like u probably do) n read other peoples problems while mines are b n laughed at. I'm really not offended or feel bad for posting this but i jus thought i let u knw how i feel since u were very clear about dat.

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    I think you should move on i deal with guys who only in it for sex and stuff and it aint cool

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    ^^^ Agreed, move on and don't even talk to him. It'll be hard, I really don't need to say anything more, it's already all been said. Besides the time part, he's not worth the stress, or the lousy reputation you're bound to get. If he doesn't respect you, then he's probably going to spread rumors around that you're doing him and all that sh*t. Not worth the effort. Not at all. Go find yourself someone better.

  • little birdy
    17 years ago

    be his friend

    he needs you right now... more then ever... and you seem like u can make a difference to him... tell him what's best for him... moraly of coarse... show him what he's doing to himself and the dangers of it later... help him... and who knows... if he really loves u and missed u... he might even change for you...

    just help him

    ... because it seems like if you cant... no one else can... or in this case... will...

    tasha