Confusing Exboyfriend -_-""

  • xx5OUL
    17 years ago

    Okay, so here's my problem in a nutshell;

    Me and my ex had been going out for about a year and three weeks, and then a dy before our anni he breaks up with me saying that he's "not ready for a serious relationship" and he's "confused". He never told me the whole "shebam" but I find out a couple days later that he likes this girl (WHO IS TWO YEARS YOUNGER THAN US) that he met a week ago. Now, I thought they were going out but apparently they weren't, and now he's coming back to me (it's been one month since we've been broken up, and when he broke up with me, he said that maybe he'll be back after a month; the truth is, he really wanted a break, but he broke up with me anyway). I guess I'm okay now, but he keeps talking to me online and saying how much he loves me and how he just needed that month to get over that other girl and yaddayadda. I don't want to buy it but I still care for him...
    I don't know! What do you guys think I should do?

  • Lovely Bones
    17 years ago

    Well, if he couldn't just eb honest and say that he needed a break, then who knows what else he's gonna do/already has done that you don't know about. This is not all about him. A relationship involves two people and I think he needs to learn what the meaning of commitment is before he's ready to actually commit and go out with you. I'd say to move on, you can do better, but it's really up to you.

  • limp
    17 years ago

    I think he's either been rejected from the girl, or is settling for less, which he considers to be you.
    Don't give him a second chance, because his story sounds like bull.

  • Megann Lee
    17 years ago

    I give second chances. Everyone gets cold feet once in awhile. Everyone needs breaks cause they are confused and not sure of what they want. If he is saying he loves you, and you dated for that long. Why not take a risk and trust him? Trust that he does really love you, that he was really confused. Maybe he wanted too see how much he loved you, and that's why this thing with the whole other girl is there. I don't know. Honestly. Talk to him? Figure it out. It's your choice though.

  • cupidsxvictim
    17 years ago

    Give him a second chance, I didn't do that and I've regretted it till this dayyy. He found someone else and probably moved on but I haven't. You'll be the one regretting it at the end if you dun.

    On the other hand, If your absolutely sure you don't have any feelings for him, then let him go. You'll meet other boys. && w/e you do.. If you gonna aks for your freinds advice with what you should do. REMEMBER ITS YOUR DECISION. All you freinds are always gonna say you deserve better and should dump him. Ask them if they would say no to a guy they liked and wanted a second chance. You'll see that there opinions start changing.

    So as much as I know you hate me saying this but, Your the only person who can decide.