how do i NOT be shy??

ok sooooooo theres this guy that works at a grocery store around the corner from my house. when i seen him i was like wow id never have a chance....and now he sooooooo likes me, even my mom notices lol. i try not to go to the store often cause i dont wan to seem like a stalker but im super shy to talk to him anways. it was super cute he seen me sitting on the steps and he honked when he drove by.

what should i do try to talk to him or what???

any advice is helpful =]]

Well I am a little shy myself so wat i would do is act a little flirty and like approach him to a point like where he could start a conversation with you because you sound as if you dont want to be the first one to say nuthin to him so you wont seem desperate or nuthin but if you need further information the you can hit me up at kidsey994@yahoo.com Im a very friendly girl I aint grown or nuthin so feel free to talk to me or anything

Well, to tell you the truth, every girl is like that in her life at some point. It's human. What I always say to myself when I'm put into that situation is, "I mise well just get it over with and take my chances, if he likes me then awesome, if he doesn't then there are plenty more out there that are going to!" Alot of my friends won't talk to the guys they like and i just tell them it is always worth the try. Think about the good time you could be missing just because you are to shy to go and say something to the guy that might be your guy for a while.

You've got nothing to lose.

So do some grocery shopping, and casually start up a conversation. If you're shy, then give him the opportunity to talk to you. If he likes you as you say he does, then he will talk to you.

And if it doesn't work out, then oh well, you can just find someone else.

Oh`lala Mya . A boy ?
Yu didn`t tell me `bout this on myspace .(:
Mmm go do the grocery shopping, hon` . Start up a convo likee that` dude up there said . Casually ask him one o` those two questions .
You ain`t got nutin`ta lose[=
..__MiNDYY

Dakiria - I suggest you edit your email out of your post, or this thread will be deleted.

Just doing you mods a favor.

I am also very shy when it comes to a guy i really like or think is cute. All you need to do is buy an item and when he's ringing it up or whatever he does, say something casual like, "hi, how are you?". From there it will be a lot easier. You just need to start up a conversation. Hope that helps a little.

mindy^^^hehe sorry hun =]]

im realllllllllly upset now though

i jus found out he quit but he knows where i live so maybe i will see him around...hmm who knows =/

maybe became to busy, had to move, or found a better job.

and just relax. treat him like any other guy untill u can feel comfortable around him. start out as friends...

yea wow everyone here gives greater advice then my friends in my area lol.

its sad he quit idk why or where. he seemed like a really good guy....maybe i should sit outside every day until he passes by again lol =D

That's too bad that he quit.

Maybe you'll run into him somewhere, but either way it isn't really much of a loss for you. Good luck finding someone else if that's what you want.

so did anything happen with this? im interested to know..

aww thats too bad. but HEY! sounds to me like he likes you big-time, so no doubt, he's probably wanting to see you just as much as you want to see him! if you live in the same area, you're bound to see him somewhere. and if and when that happens, just play it cool be all "hey! hows it going?" or say that you went into the store and found out he didnt work there anymore....he'll be flattered that you noticed and missed him ^_^

haha good luck!

nothing happened =o[ turns out he quit.

this chick at the store said she might have his number so i could do it that way. i hope i could see him in my town so i could finally say something...........

yeah you should definitely go for it.. sounds like you wouldnt regret it

K talkey to him just say hi i had the same problem kinda but we knew each other from school if you just introduce you self he cnt help but talk to ya and Dakiria u not uppose to put emails in threads anyone can add you and start talkin to ya and stalkin ya

just find him. say hi. give him your phone number and leave.

David

kiss him like u never kissed anyone before!!! no im jk. but say hi and talk 2 him let him get 2 kno u.