Death

I've thinking about death alot lately and I don't know how to stop thinking about it. It's not like I'm going to kill my self, I'm no coward.(even though I am afraid of the dark and ghosts etc.) Anyway I've just been thinking about how scared of dieing I am. Like I can die any second and yet I keep living. Do you think you can help me?

i did too, i gave it much thought like you and it wasnt like i was going to do anything...just thinking about it.

the only thing i can say and every single word trully counts....
Live is too short to pass anything up, so put aside anything thats in your way and Live your life

I don't know if this will help or not but if you are having to much time on your hands to think, that can do some major damage. It can make you worry so much and then progress into something worse, believe me I've been there. I suggest that you find more things to do in your life and take advantage of it while you still can and are young enough to do so. I also suggest that you sit, take a deep breath, and honestly think if your thoughts are rational. because if that arnt then you have to realize that and try your best to fix it. I know it's difficult but if you try then you can do anything. I hope that helps.

sarah

When I was much younger I felt the same. Over time I realised that time after my death would probably be much like before I was born. Why regret or fear something you can't change or will have no experience of. I've also experienced the opposite where over a long period of time all I have thought about is taking my own life.
In the end we have all been given an opportunity to experience and make our own decisions through life. Don't be afraid go out and live it, don't waste it.

I have the same problem and it scares me. But knowing where I go when I die is what makes me feel better. It's just something you have to let go of because it will haunt you.

It's weird that until a while ago I hadn't ever TRULY thought that life can end in the next second. It's that easy, that fragile. Then I realized that although I fear pain, I don't fear death. I mean, gee... I'm fine with it, although I'm a big coward and hope to God that it doesn't hurt, I don't believe that it's a bad thing. I believe in God, so my idea is that it probably hurts, then you feel your soul float away, maybe your life flashes through your eyes and you get to see a lot of things that have happened to you that you forgot about, and then God wraps his arms around you and you sleep. I'm not sure what happens after that, but I have faith that we will all be awake and reunited at the end of the world.
That is simply my view. I know that many people do not share it, so feel free to ignore it :)

//T.L.//

Well after I posted this answer... one night I got so scared to the point where I thought I was going to die that night in fact every night since this post it's been that way.

but i'm not crazy in fact it's more I'm four again. you know the dreams of monsters killing you.

my mom's taking me to a counseler to see what is wrong

see i used to be freaked out by the fact that i was thinking about death so much but i had comfort in the fact that id never do it, my cuts were just there to take my mind away... then they got a lil deeper... i started taking too many pills, aspirin, sleep aids, anything... then i realized that im not afraid to die anymore, that didnt scare me, but now everyone acts like i have some disease that if you come 100 feet from me, youll surely catch it...thats when you should get worried, dont get to where i am...

i think its weird that we live are lives like we do, worrying about every little thing when truthfully it dosnt matter, or shouldnt matter. Like im 15 and if i have an argument with my friends i might get really upset ,but think about it, i may live to 80 or even older. i will have loads more friends in my life so why do these ones matter. there is no point in having bad things in your life, you only live once.

everyone says live is too short ..but mabey live is quite long, we just focus on a few things when we should just live every second

im not saying you should think this ^^^these are just my own views

xxx

everybody thinks about death, the best thing to do is try not to dwell on it. do something to distract urself...hang out with friends,read a book, play a game, watch a movie. something...!

thats a really good way to look at it! im not so sure i agree but its peacefull to think about it that way, what truest lies sed.