is it right?

  • cuca aShLeY
    17 years ago

    is it right to go back with the person who broke your heart once knowing well enough they can do it again or should you just move on knowing that you love that person?

  • Kasie
    17 years ago

    well hun,
    If you love them enough then you should give them another chance. Just follow your heart. Tell them how you feel about them and take it from there. Let them gain their trust back by talking about things and find a solution. If you love them, don't hold back. hope i helped

  • eternalxxpromise
    17 years ago

    i dunno...that's a very hard situation....
    if u know he can hurt you again, when go back?
    why go back to him when all ur going back to are tears, hurt, drama, and sadness?

    i wouldn't. and sweetie,
    that's happened to me once. and it wasn't pretty. >_<

    do what ur heart tells you.
    but my suggestion would be no, don't go back.

    best of luck
    think it over once and twice

    -Steph

  • RainbowSlider
    17 years ago

    Move on knowing that you love that person seems like a good choice.

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    Follow your heart is alli can tell ya ive been hurt by 2 guys and want to go back to both of them they both still like me one is a player and the other is my besf friend i know its confusing right now but do what you think is right

  • cuca aShLeY
    17 years ago

    thank u iim still not sure but u guyz have helped:)

  • Ashes of a Black Rose aka Night Child
    17 years ago

    everyone deserves a second chance. i know that if i got one, id sure take it. but im probably not getting it, so take it. if he wants you back, and you want him, go for it. just make sure that you HEART wants it. thats the main issue. its all about whats best for the heart.

  • stefanie
    17 years ago

    sweetie....... i understand what you must be going through.... and your confused. i know. let me just say this to you... like said before me, every deserves a second chance. it just depends on whether youre brave enough to actually give them that chance... from experience, i can tell you that giving a second chance is worth it... i will admit that we have had ups and downs but now were perfect... it is hard and if you go through with it, it will for sure be. but if you really want it and if you believe that that person can change and is worth it, then listen to your heart... and you know, if it doesn't work out, don't feel as if you let yourself down. taking risks and having them not work out will make you learn who you can trust and give your heart to and better prepare you for your next relationship..... just remember, every one deserves that second chance to prove themselves... it just depends if they really want to take it and if your willing to give it to them... i hope everything works out for you and sweetie, stay strong and listen to your heart

  • Sandra D
    17 years ago

    listen to your heart... when he's calling for you... listen to your heart... there's nothing else you can do...

    lol, tht had nothing to do with the topic, but when she (will it evr be okay) said listen to your heart, it reminded me of tht song... ok, peec!

  • Barbara Jean
    17 years ago

    even tho you move on you will never forget it..

  • little birdy
    17 years ago

    once he's done it... there's a 100% chance he'll do it again... in the end... if u decide to go back... u'll think to yourself... "i cant believe that ass took so much time out of my life... i could've done better" then again... it's up to u... if u care... u care... i'm in my relationship for the... 9th or so time... but i love him... no one else id rather have then him...

  • Tainted Beauty
    17 years ago

    That's a hard question to answer, because it really depends of the personal aspect of the relationship. My boyfriend broke my heart, and we made up and I forgave him, to find out pretty much the next week that he was doing something else behind my back, but I yellled at him for a long time and almost broke up with him, and that knocked some sense into him, and since then he has really changed and has not, or would not do anything to hurt me anymore. So, you see, it is possible for him to change, but if you don't think he will, and you want to give him another chance anyway, just don't let it get too personal, and don't let you're guard down, and at the first sign of him trying to hurt you, break up with him.

  • cuca aShLeY
    17 years ago

    omg you people are so helpful..thank you all

  • Eibutsina
    17 years ago

    Its tough babes, you love someone, but you have to love and take care of yourself to. I would say move on knowing you loved and learned from that person and give yourself sometime to grow from the experience. If he loved you in the way you deserved, that you seem to love him...then you would know he wouldn't brake your heart again.

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    sometimes its about putting yourself out there, on that limb. If this person has any sense at all, they'll take into account that you are risking alot.