Need help wif a guy

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    M'kay so the other day i went to the movies wif a guy i know he lives like a couple hours away from me right so when we do get to see each other its pretty cool anyway at the movies we made out but when i got home i found out he had a gf but the person tht told me use to like him and may still like him but i asked his cousin who dsnt really like me and he said tht the guy did so i unno if it was a set up cuz both people talk or if i should be wrried tht the other chick will find out and hurt me

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    srri but i was in a hurry

  • idgaf
    17 years ago

    That made no sense really. I only got it up till "ut he had a gf but the pe" and then i was confused.

    punctuation anybody?

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    Like i said before i was in a hurry. please just give advice

  • idgaf
    17 years ago

    that's what i'm saying, i can't without you explaining what you said.

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    pretty much i was told by two people the guy i made out with had a gf one was his cousin who dsnt like me and the other was my friend who likes him i think they set it up to make me miserable

  • Dance Girlie
    17 years ago

    why don't you just ask the guy what's going on. ask him if he has a gf, and if he actually likes you, or if him and his gf were just in a fight.

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    umm i unno me and him is datin now so yah

  • Avrii Monrielle
    17 years ago

    just make sure he aint a two-timer ;) check on that if u have 2

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    ive been told he is but i trust him the sad thing is its longdistance but he told me had a pretend gf so peole at school dnt think hes weird or summin and yah all i know is he treats me nicely and makes me laugh

  • Kristen
    17 years ago

    i think you should ask the guy yourself and sees what he says..and if he tells you he does then you should be worried and if not then you shouldn't..but i think the people who told you i think they COULD be lieing BUT then again NOT..you know what i mean ?

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    i know wut you mean yes but one was mad when i dated him the first time im thinking revenge and the other has a crush on me and i am dating his cousin and yah i dunno i trust my bf

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    i know wut you mean yes but one was mad when i dated him the first time im thinking revenge and the other has a crush on me and i am dating his cousin and yah i dunno i trust my bf

  • Kristen
    17 years ago

    yeah but you also said he had to say he had a pretend gf that does really make sense..i would ask him again..because if he is two timeing you..you should end it instead of you getting hurt...Right ?

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    true but he said all they do is randomly yell across the class room i luv ya and it means nothing trust is key in a relationship i do trust him

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    You should trust him, but if it's a long distance relationship, you never know, because you're not there. He could be cheating on you, and you would never know. Also, if you're going to get info from people, you should probably try asking people who aren't emotionally involved in the situation. Now I'm not saying their liars, but well emotion tends to get in the way of rational thought sometimes. I would just be very careful if I were you, you really don't want to end up hurt. And I wouldn't want you to get hurt.

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    well i unno i trust him i do and if he is cheatin its on his "pretend gf" not me ive only been datin him for 2 days

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    If he is cheating, it's on both of you, it's not a one way thing. That whole pretend g/f thing is weird, I'm not quite sure I get it. So he has a fake g/f to cover up the fact that he has a real g/f? If that's the case (I'm not saying it is) then it sounds like he's ashamed of having a g/f, which doesn't make any sense. Like I said, just be careful w/ your heart, if it gets broken, it takes a looonnnggg time to put it back together.

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    i know ive had it broken many times i know i was on the phone with him and he said tht somegirl is gunna come crying back to him so i dnt think hes dating anyone else and the pretend gf thing is kinda like a joke at school atleast thts what he told me

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    I see. Hmmmm, well idk. It still sounds quite odd to me. Anyway, well, just keep talking to him. Tell him what you're feeling, that's my advice. Sit him down and have a serious heart felt talk with him. If he is serious and he understands, then he is good enough for you. If he doesn't, well then, idk, it probably won't work. I don't mean to sound harsh, but well, yeah, it's your heart we're talking about here.

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    i know and appreiciate your concern but i unno i havent talked to him for like over a day now unno what happened but im hoping to see him tomorrow unless he went home cuz he was down for christmas

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    Ok, well good luck, I hope things work out for you!

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    i hope so too i really like him

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    lol, well just listen to your head, it'll tell you what's right and wrong. Listen to your heart, because it'll tell you where to go. Don't get discouraged, things will get better!!

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    yah man i hope so Lol and thnx so much for everyones help

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    You're welcome! Good luck!!!

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    Also im changin my name to ;;[D]ark;;[+];;[P]rincess;; if i can if not ill still be ~**~TiNkErBeLl~**~

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    And tanx