I Decided That Love At First Sight Is Possible.

  • UnderAge Dying
    17 years ago

    When You Think About It,
    If You Look Deep Enough Into Someone's Eyes,
    You Can Tell What They Are Like And What
    They Are Thinking.
    And The Smallest Things Always Seem To Mean
    The Most.

  • xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex
    17 years ago

    And I never saw my loves' eyes for a year and six months.
    We're a long distance relationship..Yet, we fell in love.
    But, odd things can happen..You never know with love.

    xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    you can i saw my current bf for the first time and it was mutual we both liked each other and have for a long time

  • Lovely Bones
    17 years ago

    but like and love are two different things

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    yes but we are datin now and we are in love

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    well i know when i talked to him all the time he told me he loved me ok and i felt the same way god if you have a problem with wut i put dnt read it

  • Avrii Monrielle
    17 years ago

    i dont believe in first... i believe in 2nd!

    ~_^ cmon; emotion doesnt relate to logicality!

    v-v but its true; you cant love someone right away... you can deeply like them or something, but love is deeper than like... ever.

    u could say 1st sight is more like attraction. 2nd, u kno a lil more...

    :P i still am comfy knowing that love takes time :) if u love them, nice. but take ur time!

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    I agree with beloved. Liking someone is VERY different from loving someone. You may feel a deep connection the first time you see someone, but love is something for people you know intimately. You can't know someone intimately if you don't even know their name. Now, you may fall in love quickly, but well, I think it's impossible to love someone you don't even know....

  • MischieviousMya
    17 years ago

    love at first sight is some random saying that has been around for ages............LITERALLY lol. you can see someone from a distance then start to talk to them and become completely thrown off..........trust me I KNOW lol.

    its more of a gut instinct than anything else. =]]

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    w.e

  • Princess of snow
    17 years ago

    what you said is true....
    and it kind of touched my heart beacuse I want to believe that love at first sight is possible that it's not just "us" dreaming...
    about what we want. I have been struggling a lot with things like love and stuff....what you said mad me realize that maybe just maybe love at first sight is possible....and that it's not"us" going crazy os hoping too much.... =)

  • BeautifulxMess
    17 years ago

    A.T, you don't have to be so rude. Yes it's your opionion but really, is rudness necessary
    "Don't be stupid?" c'mon now. Be a little more nice. A little bit of niceness wouldn't hurt. You don't have to attack her opinion, just state yours. You don't have to always be right you know. And opinion is not a fact, so therefore, you're not giving FACTS just OPINIONS!

    Back to the post:

    Yes, I think it's possible. When you first lay eyes on your true love it's not the looks you look at its there eyes you're looking into. Love is a feeling, and you don't see it. You feel it. Love at first sight isn't what you're seeing with your eyes mainly what your heart. I greatly agree with you.

    When you're a Christian like me, you believe in almost anything. :)

    ~Taylor~

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    That is really a very sweet post Taylor, I guess some of us are just a little to logical.... hehe.

  • BeautifulxMess
    17 years ago

    Thank you. I think people just don't stop and really would think about it. I mean, no offense to who haven't, but the ones who never experianced true love are more likely to think that love at first sight is not real. Actually, everyone looks at love at first sight the same way they'd look at a peice of paper with one straight line. Some may think it's just a line, may think it's a road. Every one thinks different. Love at first sight is only how you think of it, and some people don't think of it.
    My opinion. Don't attack me because of it.

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    Completely areeged, everyone thinks differently, therefore everyone is going to have different opinions. Maybe you're right, about not believeing it because it hasn't happened, idk, it's kinda hard to think about, because lets be honest, who really knows what love is in the first place?

  • BeautifulxMess
    17 years ago

    Agreed again. First time someone actually agreed then attack my opinion. Lol.

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    lol, I know, some people are way to rude!! Just because they have different views doesn't mean you're an awful person, it just means you look at the world a little differently, and come on, everyone needs a different point of view every once in a while!!

  • BeautifulxMess
    17 years ago

    Lol True, true.

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    lol! Everyone is entitled to a little culture! You know my mind tells me it's impossible, love at first sight, but at the same time, the hopeless romantic part of me really wants to believe it! I just haven't quite figured out which part of me I really want to listen to... lmao!!

  • TragicRomance
    17 years ago

    It is very much possible

  • BeautifulxMess
    17 years ago

    Yes I'm a COMPASIONATE person. I MAY NOT AGREE BUT I'M NOT MEAN ABOUT IT! You may have not thought your comments were rude, but they are. Dummies? Oh yeah, that's not rude at all.
    Why do you have to talk down to so many?
    Have you no heart at all? And unless you're speaking with a fact then I suggest proof? If you don't have any proof that it's a fact then you're speaking in an opinion. YOu know, you really don't ALWAYS have to be right. Just because you don't agree with us, doesn't give you the right to attack our opinion.

  • BeautifulxMess
    17 years ago

    Yeah I can tell. My opinon is not rediculous. I'm a CHRISTIAN! Do you know what that is? Seems to me you don't. A Christian is when you believe in many things. Dummies isn't so cute . Some may not think. Yes, there's sensitive people on here. It's rude to hurt there feelings.

    My opinion is just as rediculous as your attitude.

    Just because you don't believe in it, doesn't mean we can't. You can't make us change our mind, believe in it or not, so don't try to. I know exactly what you're going to say. "I'm not trying to make you change your mind." It seems like you are.

    You've been causing a lot of problems on here and a bunch of people are fed up with your rude remarks. Just because you may be older than some of us doesn't give you the right to talk bullcrap the way you do. Seriously, I'm not so little as you think.

    So love at first sight is a believe, not a right, not a fact, and not something you can attack people on.

    I really think this should be locked.
    It's getting out of hand and peole are going to get made at SOME people's rudeness on THERE OPINONS!

  • BeautifulxMess
    17 years ago

    Ok whatever. You know I don't have time to argue with you. You're not worth it. I know what I felt when I first saw my boyfriend. YOu don't know what I felt. So I have nothing more to say to you.
    Good-bye now.

  • sibyllene
    17 years ago

    haha... wow. that was kind of fun to read.

    anyway. notes-

    - Southern, heh... you kinda make it sound like "I'm a Christian, therefore I'll believe anything," which may not be the best, but eh. I guess there is some sort of passionate love for the impossible extremes that we have, as religious people. But anyway.

    -about love- I don't think you could have complete, fully bloomed love at first sight, because love takes time and trust to build until its secure. I do think, however, that you can get intuitive feelings about people, and you might meet someone where, even if you don't love them -yet- you know that you -could- in the future. I think, with the right two people, love wouldn't necessarily take a long time to build. But I think sharing lives is what brings people closer together, and if you don't have that history and point of reference, then you can't have more at first sight than just a gut feeling of what could be.

  • UnderAge Dying
    17 years ago

    Southern Charm-
    thank you very much for you opinion it is
    greatly appreciated!

    and thanks to everyone else

    by love at first sight i mean when you see someone
    and they make your heart race and your
    palms sweat and you get that amazing
    yet weird feeling inside

    that is what i think love at first sight is.
    believe what you want
    but dont be rude to people who express their opinion
    you're doing the same.

    thanks.

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    What if it is possible for there to exist a happy medium? Not neccisarily "oh-my-god-i'm-going-to-marry-you" love, but, i don't know.. something that is more than just a mutual attraction. You look into someone and you know that love is absolutely POSSIBLE. Theres that feeling.. not a giddy schoolgirl feeling.. but more of a soft knowing. You see that particular person and you know that you won't forget them. I think its possible..

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    All right, this is kind of amusing me.

    I'm laughing because I've read most of these posts (skimmed some of them), and Angelina is really the only one making sense. You don't like her 'attitude' apparently, but come on. I don't see how anybody can NOT understand what she's saying.

    The idea of "love at first sight" is really sweet, and I wish I could say I fell in love with my boyfriend at first sight, because it makes for a cute story.

    But that didn't happen, and it doesn't happen.

    To fall in love you need to completely accept all their faults, as well as their positive attributes. There are so many aspects to love, not a single one of you can honestly say that you looked at a person, one time, and you both fell in love with each other.

    You can be attracted to them, but until you have a conversation and get to know each other, it's all physical. Which is not love.

    This is absurd, really.

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    This kind of goes with the quote,

    `Do you believe in first love?

    If you dont, I'll walk on by again.`

    It was on my friends T-Shirt. It was hilarious~!

  • ms.understood
    17 years ago

    see im knid of in the middle cuz i agree w/ angelina talyor but i also think it is possible cuz there was definatly a spark between me & my boyfreind when we first met...

  • pozinthenoise
    17 years ago

    I do not believe at love at first sight.

  • ms.understood
    17 years ago

    angelina, its hind of hard to have anything but a spark for eachother when we were involved with other people at the time, im sure that if we were single, it would of been much more than that straight away.

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    ** Sorry it was

    Do You Believe In First Love

    Or Should I Walk By Again

  • ms.understood
    17 years ago

    no, i get your point just fine, its mine that you dont seem to get.