In love with the wrong guy. Am I?

  • Dana
    17 years ago

    Ok. I have a boyfriend. His name is Zach and I told him I love him. But I still have feelings for my best friend. Last night, Trevor (my best friend) came over and we had so much fun. We couldn't stop laughing. We always have fun when we're together. I've wanted to tell him I like him for a year and a half. I just can't seem to do it. I have a boyfriend, but I think I'm still in love with my best friend. What should I do?

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    Tell Trevor your feelings otherwise he'll never know also if it makes things ackward i think hes not worth your time and as for zach tell him the truth

  • hardrock
    17 years ago

    i think you should tell trevor how you feel b/c you never know, he might feel the same way and tell zach the truth... easier said than done but its the best thing to do.

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    Yah itss the only thing to do i tink

  • Sole
    17 years ago

    Friendship tends to last much longer than Love.

  • little birdy
    17 years ago

    why are you with your bf still? could be because youre afraid that you have no one to fall back on if trevor doesnt feel the same way... or maybe... that's not it at all. think about everything at risk... you're playing with Zach's feelings... he may really care... yet... you're also putting a good friendship into danger... it's all up to you... but if you do anything... break up with the bf first... even if you dont plan on talking to trevor...

  • Tainted Beauty
    17 years ago

    I agree with pretty much everyone else, it's wrong to try to pursue Trevor, without breaking up with Zach first

  • Taylor
    17 years ago


    Well jeez, just look at the very post you wrote. It's about Trevor. Not about this Zach fellow. What does that tell you?
    Go with Trevor. It sounds like you don't TRULY LOVE your boyfriend, its just something you might be used to saying. And with this Trevor guy.. there might be something. who knows?

  • pozinthenoise
    17 years ago

    It's hard to risk your friendship but nonetheless, tell your true feelings for him. You should be true to him. Don't hide it. I agree that maybe Trevor loves you too. Goodluck!

  • ShootingStar179
    17 years ago

    If you're honest in your friendship with Trevor, tell him.

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    crunkz you sound like an effin fourtune cookie OMG it wnt end in tears if you Love trevor TELL HIM ALREADY and zach will undersand but before you tell trevor be sure you end it with Zach first you dnt want to ruin a possible friendship also still talk to zach and stay friends wit him if you and trevor hook up

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Crunkz - You've said that about a million times in different other posts.