Personal Thoughts and Self Esteem

-Whats ur main problem? (whats the worst thing)
I have a constant fear of people abandoning me and thus intentionally or unintentionally hardly get close or trust anyone.

-Think about wot caused this to happen?
people leaving me at a young age. people breaking my trust in important matters

-What's something you can tell yourself so you no ur not the only one?
some people are much, much worse off than me. think of all the people who are like this to but eventually get over it.

-What is your favourite song at the moment?
Someday you will be loved by death cab for cutie

-What is the song about?
how when people leave you it hurts at first but eventually u will find someone even better who will make you 4get about everyone else and make you feel special, loved and most of all happy

-How does that relate to you?
basically i am hopeing that "someday, someone will walk into my life and make me realise why it never worked out with anyone else"

-Which line or part of the song do you connect with the most? (post it here)
You may feel alone when you're falling asleep
And everytime tears roll down your cheeks
But I know your heart belongs to someone you've yet to meet
Someday you will be loved

-Have you ever had more self confiedence than you do now?
hmm yeh like 3 years ago

-Are you working on improving your self-esteem? What are you doing?
Working through issues and taking one step at a tym

-Were the things you stated material thing? (such as: get a bf/gf, look prettier/hotter, were cooler clothes, etc?
No why would i waste my time trying to improve something so stupid and irrelevant

hmm i have spoken about this stuff before. but it's kinda amazing how my favourite song reflects how i feel. thinkin back now most of my favourite songs have. i'm doing it subconsciously too.

-What is your main problem (what's the worst thing)?
I have no self-confidence, or self-respect...

-Think about what caused this to happen:
Danny Barshop, my mother, and an abusive relationship from the past... And I've never really been proud of myself, mainly because I'm constantly being juged, labeled, and put down.

-What is something that you can tell yourself so you know you are not the only one?
I try every day to convince myself that broken hearts are all around me, that everyone goes through self-concious periods... that i'm not alone... but i feel deep down that i AM alone.

-What is your favourite song right now?
"Diary Of Jane" by Breaking Benjamin

-What is the song about?
From what i gather, its about a guy who loves a girl, and she doesnt know it, and he cant tell her, and he writes about her every day, hoping that she does the same for him.

-How does that relate to you?
Danny. And Kira. I write songs, poems, diary entries... hoping every time i do that they think of me too, that I'm somehow in their thoughts.

-Which line or part of the song do you connect with the most? Post it here:
"And I will try to find my place
In the diary of Jane."

-Have you ever had more self confidence that you do now?
At one time, yes.

-Are you working towards improving your self-esteem? What are you doing?
I'm trying. On days that i think i look good, i take a picture, and keep it on my wall as a reminder that I can look good, and i try to talk to people, be more outgoing. And I'm working on finding a few friends, girl friends, because all my friends are guys... and none of them are interested, so im also trying to find someone who is. i just want someone to live for, someone who loves me, since my parents have made it obvious they dont give a rip.

-Were the things you just stated material things?
(Such as: get a boyfriend/girlfriend, look prettier/hotter, wear cooler clothes, etc.)
i guees so. thats not too good is it?

-What is your main problem (what's the worst thing)? I guess really just a few personal issues I would rather not get into in here, but family related kinda stuff that has been bothering me and really affecting all areas of my life...stress and worry!

-Think about what caused this to happen:
I know it revolves around my partner, not what hes doing directly to me, but to himself

-What is something that you can tell yourself so you know you are not the only one?
I know its a common battle for alot of people and it can be helped.

-What is your favourite song right now?
Honestly - Lumidee

-What is the song about?
LOL I see where this is getting :O) She sings about her man, how he drives her nuts but she loves him to death and is scared trying to be there for him, all she hopes for is just to be with him...is this trick psychology or what?

-How does that relate to you?
Ummmmm so much its scary lol

-Which line or part of the song do you connect with the most? Post it here:
"I'm scared cause I dare to love you and be there"

-Have you ever had more self confidence that you do now?
Nah Im a pretty confident person in general

-Are you working towards improving your self-esteem? What are you doing?
I have retrained my thought patterns to be more positive than negative and its worked wonders. My religion has been the most welcome and appreciated blessing more than any other, it makes me feel great about myself and have faith in my life and in my choices!

-Were the things you just stated material things?
(Such as: get a boyfriend/girlfriend, look prettier/hotter, wear cooler clothes, etc.)
No, far from it

**This was great hun thanks so much for sharing**

-Whats ur main problem? (whats the worst thing)
I have negative fews of myself, and I'm scared that people will see how weak I am, so if i am talking about my problems, if I think it's getting too personal, I just laugh it off.

-Think about what caused this to happen?
No one seems to care when I'm talking about what hurts me, or they just do it again.

-What's something you can tell yourself so you know your not the only one?
Everyone has problems, far worse than mine, so I should just get over it.

-What is your favourite song at the moment?
Across the universe-the beatles

-What is the song about?
In my opinion, it's about overcoming obsticals and moving on with your life.

-How does that relate to you?
I am going through a rough time right now, so it helps me realize that there's nothing that I can't overcome if I try hard enough.

-Which line or part of the song do you connect with the most? (post it here)
"Nothing is going to change my world"

-Have you ever had more self confiedence than you do now?
Yes

-Are you working on improving your self-esteem? What are you doing?
I'm trying. I bought new clothes, which make me feel pretty, and I'm trying to look more on the bright side and not let other people bring me down so easily.

-Were the things you stated material thing? (such as: get a bf/gf, look prettier/hotter, were cooler clothes, etc?
A part of it