Can some give me some advice.

Okay...so me && this guy have been together for about 2 months now and I truly love him and I want this to work out and last. But we fight alot. And I always am a hard bitch about it cuz I dont want to give in when he is being mean but then when I am stickin up for myself and shit ppl think i am a bitch to him and I cross the line or w/e so i want to know if I should continue to be a tough bitch when we fight and he being an ass or shoud I ease up and be nice and try workin tha fight out
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first, who gives a crap what people think.. second, what do you feel in your heart?

I thikn i shoudl kinda be a bitch aboutit because i dont want him to think that i am gonna walk all over me i have been into too many relationships were i let that happen and it was shit

if thats what makes you happy. do it.. and tell him your feelings. if he dont listen hell with him. be who u want to be you know?

Your right

everyone has diffrent opinions on this tho.. see what they say..lol

I was going through the same thing in a way. When I would fight I would also get cruel, and be quiet *itchy. Depending on ur man, u should be nice to him more cuz, after some time they'll either get used to it, feel un-important or would break up with u. So being a *itch works out sometimes but other times u should try to remain more nice to him, cuz it might mess things up in the relationship. I love my man too and when we fight I lose my cool, but u need to treat him like he is ur everything ur best friend and ur man. And let him know, that no matter what u love him. Too much of *itchyness can be bad. So I stopped being a bitch and be more nice, its much better this way. But hey sometimes u gotta keep them in line. lol

just dont lose him.

see my last relationship f-ed me up and im still heartbroken from it and all and been thru so much. the lies and not having trust made a biutch out of me..

oh yea keep them inline.. they dont like what you are screw them

how about, instead of being either the 'tough bitch' or the pansy, why not do this:

Be assertive, not tough:
meaning.. don't yell. Period. there's no reason.

Listen:
Although you may have good points. Show that you are compassionate and are interested in what he thinks. It helps alot.

Compromise. Compromise. COMPROMISE! :
Don't be an extremist. Don't be either all in or all out. Don't quit when it gets a little uncomfortable. It shows people that you have standards, but that you also realize that they do too. It'll earn you respect.

You Don't have to win every time:
let him have the honor of 'winning' an arguement (this time) so you can make up and like eachother again, but know secretly that you could have won, and be happy with that.

Love after two months...okay - how long and how well do you know this guy?

Love is about compromise Katie, you shouldn't be fighting this much so early in your relationship, its what should be the "honeymoon period". You guys should be blissfully happy with each other enjoying each others company but instead your trying to justify fighting with your partner, the one you say you "truly love" on here...

Gees we must have really different opinions on what "love" is...