hey, anyone who can relate?

hi, i was wonderein if dere is anyone who has been in my position and can mayb help... Me and my boyfrend hav been together 4 about 15 months, but the last 4 months have been terrible, we fyt so often, but if we try break up, we both end up in tears 5 minutes later and get bak together... is this normal? or is it time to break up do u think?? also, im movin away in a month to go to varsity and we wil only c eachother every two months!! im so confused!! pls can sumone help

well i say break up...i mean if you've been fighting for the past 4 months then there's something wrong
have you tried to break up with him?? cuz you said "if we try to break up...."that mean you havent tried...so you dont know if you'll hook up again..maybe hes fighting with you cuz he doesnt want to be with you any more..but he doesnt want to break your heart.
Plus if you're moving it'll be harder to keep your relationship alive..since it's already falling apart.
wellz if you do break up with him...dont regret it...cuz at one point in life it was EXACTLY wat you wanted...plus you'll just get hurt again....dont worry just live life and go with the flow...everythig will be right for you sooner or later
~Christina

end it my friend and her bf are havin the same prob. except she isnt moving and they havent been dating aslong

stay. stay. stay. wtf are the rest of you saying? gee. the question is if you love him? if you do stay. and i mean when i say love i mean like for always. you want to grow up together. you want to die together.

if you dont love him this way break up. and just so that you know i have a famous quote.

absense makes the heart grow stronger.

so its only if you love him or not. is you do it will be hard when you leave but you will see him and your love for him will be the same. or more!

David

woah!
I'm engaged and we have one huge fight at least once a week and more often then not, i'll scream i'm leaving him and we'll cry a lot!
It does NOT bloody mean we should end it if we love each other more than life.
God, me and Marcus have had fights for the last 8 months, his parents have been together over 20 years and still have fights, should they have broken up???
Er... NO!

Honey, stick it out if you love each other, fighting clears the air between you both which is better than bottling it up.
I agree with David wholeheartedly, stand by your man honey, you'll get through this
Good luck hun!
*Gem*

hmm. i really dont know. berakups are so hard to ovrcome. see if ur wiling to let go.

the big question is: do u love him, and him you. figure that out. have a serious discussion about this. worry about honesty at that moment, and nothing else. then you'll figure out what to do..

the right thing will come to you.