How do you know when he is true?

  • Shandra
    17 years ago

    Me and my boyfriend( Randy) have been together for a month and 16 days. he tells me that he has never felt this way for a girl ever and doesnt want to anyone else. The other night i told him that i was think really hard on if he is the right one for me. He got really quite and said plz plz dont break up with me and he started crying and telling me that he is madly in love with me and all this i was crying too. cuz i have never had a guy tell me anything like this before.see i have a fear...love. I have since my 1st love. none of my relationships have lasted past 2 months. I care about him alot.but i dont know if he is true. can you help?

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    So many people ask this question yet phrase it differently, and i'm going to tell you what i tell everyone else.
    When it's true.. you just know!
    You don't need to ask anyone cos you just know deep down. You don't need to question it
    Look in your heart and you'll find the answer, no one else can tell you.
    Good luck hun =)
    *Gem*

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Okay here's what I think:

    If you care about him so much, and he's good to you, then continue the relationship. He may not be "the one" but if you're happy for now then just go for it. You don't know what will happen in the future.

    Don't worry so much about whether you're in love with him or not at this point. Why rush it? You haven't been together very long at all, so just see how it goes. When you really love him, you will know.

  • Miss MakeUp
    17 years ago

    believe him if he says that. dont tell him that tho if u dont feel it. and dont give it up 2 him, cuz that's a HUGE mistake if u find out he doesnt feel that way.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    You don`t know if he`s true .
    I`m exactly the same as you . Only none of my relationships last even a month . I`m scared of getting hurt . Loev doesn`t even exist in my world -- I think it`s complete B.S . But sometimes, you just gotta trust what he says . Wait, and see what happens . I`m going through a similiar situation, only the guy and I aren`t going out yet cuhs` we`re taking it slow .
    ..__MiNDYY

  • xfAdInGxaWaYx
    17 years ago

    That's a question only you can answer. You'll know when you've found the one for you. It certainly seems that he thinks of the world of you at the moment, but don't rush things. When you're ready love will find you.

  • Void
    17 years ago

    Ok. Honestly, I can understand why you might question his feelings.... But I for one, would never break up with someone out of suspicioun that he's not 'the one'. You've only been dating a little while. Well, sure a month and a bit is an accomplishment, but that's not enough time to tell yourself whether he's the one or not.
    You're so worried about him not being true, when personally, I think it's you that's not being entirely true to yourself or to him. Fear is strong enough to stop people, and has stopped me before, so I can't judge you too harshly. But you're telling us that you're not sure he's the one, thus you can't love him... So how is this him not being true? This is you not giving him a chance.
    Don't use past relationships to nitpick at new ones. If there's nothing wrong here except your fear of love, then you've gotta get over it sooner or later.

    Love hurts. Love heals. Love stays. -It's a permanent ink kind of thing... But if you stop taking risks, you'll never find that love. And what is life without love?

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    You won't know until you keep it going.