How do I get over him?

I've tried moving on so many times from my ex, but I just can't.
We've been broken up for almost ten months now and not even spoken for that amount of time.
But I love him so very much and wish with all my heart that I could change what happened between us.
I know the breakup was my fault and I wish I could somehow rectify things, but I know that I can't.
Today I was tempted to email him to apologise for the trouble I caused, but backed out because I didn't want to start any arguments up between us again.

Does anyone have any tips on how to move on?

mmm i agree with the one above me..it's really hard trust me i know...i just got over my realtionship with my ex...it's been like 2 months since the breakup...and it's wicked hard...like everywhere i go...i feel like i see what we did there yea know...and everytime i see him...i fall back in love with him again...and i can't help it...it's so hard...to do this...and i want to be with him again more than anything...but it's wicked hard to get over them trust..me but you can do it..i'm doing it and it's working pretty much...i only think bout him like once in a great while...and he's such a mean...tho...he's calling me a slut and stuff..and howhe never liked me and how he hated me...and how he thought i was ugly...but why did he go out with me in the first place yea know....

you don't need your ex's move on...there's so many other good guys out there trust me...it's hard but it's for the good :D
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Leave it now. Don't email him or call him, it won't do any good. Go out and spend some time with your friends and have some fun. When you're alone occupy your thoughts by doing something like painting or reading or going for a walk. It takes a long time and sometimes seems if there is no end but there is and you need to keep sight of that. Remember theres always more fish in the sea!