Help please!

Okay. I used to date this guy and he was the sweetest thing to me. Me and him would talk about everything! And he used to live in my apartment building, just down on other ends of the hall. And his dad and my grandma would always get together and talk and that. Sadly I never listened to him when he told me he truly loved me, we're together for a 4-5 months. And I just turned my back on him and I dunno why. Then he moved out and with his mother, and I rarely see him anymore! Then he came over to my house and told me that he was visiting and he imeaditely[sp?] gave me a hug when I opened the door. It was so great to see him again. He gave me his phone and cell # because I told him I wanted to see him again. In the end I wanted to say I loved him still apologize that I turned my back on him, but he had gotten a girlfriend. And they had been together for 6 months I think. We still act like we used to be when we were hanging out all the time. I dunno. I'm happy for him and that, but yet I still miss him so bad:(.

Has anyone been in this situation before?

i guess you could wait. you dont relli have a choice, your heart will react in the way it wats and you just gotta wait on it to move on or for the situation to change.

If this guy really liked u b4 maybe he'll still like u. U gotta be honest and tell him how u feel, even if he does have a gf. It's the only way to know for sure.

It sounds like you really do care for him, since you want him to be happy. Perhaps you should just tell him what you told us - that you're sorry for "turning your back" on him and sorry for how things ended. I think that's innocent enough, and he'd probably appreciate your friendship and honesty. As for telling him you like him and such... I'm not sure. He has a girlfriend that he apparently likes if he's been with her for half a year, so that would put him in a weird situation. If you do feel like you need to tell him, try not to put any pressure on him. You could say "yes, I like you, but I jsut want to be here for you and be friends, if that's how it has to be." Hope this helped a bit! Good luck