i dunno what to do! "

  • Kat
    17 years ago

    Okay well, I don't really think that there is anything that you can do...he is going to be how he is now, he is probably just scared. I don't know how old he is but it doesn't seem like there really is anything you can do about it. He is going to handle it however he is going to handle it.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    You are very irresponsible if you were using the "pulling out method". Seriously.

    And as for your boyfriend, there's nothing you can do about him. He obviously panicked, he'll come around when he calms down a bit.

    Also, maybe this is rude of me to point out, but you shouldn't be "making love" with someone who you don't truly love.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    If you think you might be pregnant, you better get to a doctor right away. That baby (if there is one) should be most important right now.

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    lol--tears--aniwaiz--there's nothing for you to worry about your that so called boyfriend--
    i'm sure he'll soon find his way--
    and yes--his acting weirdness may realated to tha sex--widout protection--i'm sure he's worriedn, and don't want to be the father so soon--how old is he aniwai?

    y don't you go and talk to him?--if he keeps on ignoring--one day --just pull him and push him to a wall and say" WE HAVE TO TALK--NOW!!"

    blablabla--and ya go to the doctor to check out--wen you feel like it--

  • Miss MakeUp
    17 years ago

    the guys nervous. give him a lttle time hopefully he'll come around. Best wishes. :)
    ♥ Jigaboo ♥

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    I'm sorry but I just had to speak my mind on this one. If you now just say that we shouldnt be telling you who you can and cannot hve sex with then why ask us for our opinons for you guys's fault on if he went to early.

    You wanted our opinons so you got it. Wheather you like it or not. Next time I would have to say, if you want our opinons then be ready for what we think.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Okay no offence, but I think your attitude toward sex is a bigger problem than your boyfriend ignoring you at the moment. So that's why I told you what I did.

    BUT, like the person above me said, it's just my opinion!

  • sibyllene
    17 years ago

    nicely done, britt ^

    to the topic at hand, however: yeah, he's probably a little freaked out right now, just like you. Maybe this is just a one-time thing, for him to act so weird, but if not, maybe you should re-evaulate your relationship with him. Sex comes with the risk of getting pregnant. Therefore, you probably wouldn't want to do it with anyone that you honestly couldn't consider being the father of your child. Maybe he's just scared and you need to talk, but if he's simply showing his irresponsibility.... just think about it.

  • Miss Kay
    17 years ago

    Wow, well said Britt.

    I'm not going to comment on my opinons about sex but to answer your question about what you should do.

    Of course your bf is going to freak out about it because I'm sure that he's not ready for a kid & I'm pretty sure that you're not either. But here's the thing, the chances that you're actually pregnant are pretty slim. Girls have mainly 2 days within their cycle to which they're most able to get pregnant. I'm not saying that it's impossible to get pregnant during the other days, it's just a lot less likely.

    You shouldn't freak out unless you begin to have symptoms such as: sore breasts, morning sickness. But just because you get sick doesn't mean you're pregnant, it could also be from panicking & having panic attacks. That's really all I know about it considering I've never been pregnant or anything of the sort.

    Give your bf time & if you find out you're not pregnant I'm sure he'll calm down.

    But also, keep in mind that protection isn't just for not getting pregnant, but it also protects (yeah get it, protection, protects) you from diseases which are honestly not too uncommon these days. And remember that it's selfish of a guy not to want to use protection or to use the pull out method because if you become pregnant, it's more your problem then his. So respect yourself & set down some rules.

    I hope I helped atleast a bit.

    .Kayla.

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    "Don't be silly. Wrap your willy"

    (Sorry, couldn't resist)