okay, I like this guy, but he doesn't like me.

I like this guy, but my best friend likes him, too. She has for three years now. I have for 8-11 months now. He likes her, so we think, but he always says no when she asks him out. I had her ask him if he liked me, he told her to stop asking stupid questions. I really do like him, but I don't think he likes me. What am I not doing right for him?

If you are being yourself then your aren't doing anything wrong. It is not worth changing anything for any guy.

~Kat~

...well...

hmm...

I'd probably put my shoes in the category of ur 3 years crushing best friend right now...

"But... I've had a crush on him since forever..."

Okay, now ur crush's shoes:

~Love Triangle~

:P does it speak for itself?

You're 13, if he's saying no he probably wants to be a kid and hang out with friends more than he wants to start dating (especially when he won't even talk about how he feels by saying "Stop asking stupid questions")

You and your friend better just both leave him alone. You can promise not to get mad and stay friends, but if he picks one of you over the other there will be problems.

Your friend should be more important to you. So forget about him, and tell her to do the same.

I agree.. just leave him alone! He is probably not ready for a realtionship and even if he was if you both like him it's going to create problems... so stick w/ your best friend and don't worry about him!!!! ^_^

Obviously, he's not ready for a relationship, with either of you. It's time to face facts hun, if he's said no about your friend countless times and he doesn't want to answer a simple question about you, the outlook doesn't look good.
But as you said, your friend did like him first and has done for a lot longer. So if your friend means a lot to you, you'd stay away in the first place.
Good luck to both of you though
*Gem*

no friendship is worth fighting over a guy. hun, listen to me, guys can come and go, but your friendship will last a lifetime. i agree ^^^^ hes not ready, and really i dont think you are either. just promise me you wont rush into things to fast. wow, i just gave you advise that i should have given myself a while ago. lol, good luck and dont rush anything!

I agree with her^^ and Kat.

Thanks. Really, it makes me feel better that it's not me. Should I just stop liking him and move on?

^If you can just stop liking him altogether by making that choice in a few seconds, then you probably don't even like him that much.

wat--u asked your own fren to ask him--if he likes you?--r u stupid?--or did you luv hav already drowned you brain--well i can't say anithing like that--so sori--

well there's nothing you can do--y dont you try to be his fren--talk to him instantly--and se if your love can grow--

best lucky--SECRET+

this has happened to meh before. its not a good feeling...

I was just curious.

^^^true

guys dont like to be bothered and hate answering questions that have to do with what they arent interested in. not saying your not interesting........just maybe not his type!!! GL =o]

dnt ask questions just dnt if he likes you or her he'll come around on his own don't stress it at all

Well, we have been talking more, and he has suddenly appeared a lot more around me. And, he asked his best friend to ask my best friend to ask me if I liked him. I'm lost...again. Thanks for your help so far.

I personally think you should just move on, if your friend has liked him, then she is just going to get upset and mad if you go out with him, and your friend should be worth more to you than a guy anyway. This is my take on it, but ulitimately the descision is yours to make, and no matter what people tell you, YOU have to make that choice. It's up to you, but I hoped I helped.

Maybe he's gay.

He may not be ready for it, and to have 2 best friends liking him and wanting to be with him isnt a good situation for him because he is going to have to make a choice and the relationship may not work because the girl he doesnt choose may have problems with it and could make it really difficult.
but he could also not like either of you in that way or he isnt ready for the relationship yet, best off leaving it for a while and see if you still like him because friends stay around and guys dont =]

but good luck =]
~*~Jen~*~

just be yourself and be la git dont change yourself. If the guy doesnt like you then hes not worth it.

Thanks a lot. You guys have helped so much. You guys rock! :)

P.S. David, I hope(SO MUCH) after all of this he isn't gay, but with my luck he probibly is...:D