do you think he's telling me the truth?

ok hi! i posted one like this before but i just think that i might've said a word that isn't allowed so ill keep this as pg as possible:P anyway...so my boyfriend and i have been on and off dating for like 5 months. but this time around...he's saying things like..about our future together. i guess i'll just show you what he said:

Logan-“I want to be able to wake up next to you every morning”
Me-“Aw”
Logan-“I love you”
Me-“I love you too”
Logan-“You know…this is the happiest I’ve ever been”
Me-“Same here”
Logan-“Last night I only got 2 hours of sleep”
Me-“Oh, well if you’re tired you can go home…”
Logan-“I don’t want to! Anyway, during those two hours…I had a dream. It was our marriage”
Me-“AWWWW”
Logan-“Yeah, I really think that you’re the one for me”
Me-“aw”(yeah repetitive i know lol)
Logan-“Would you ever want to marry me if you could?”
Me-“Yes”
Logan-“Then you can be mine forever”
Me-“Yay”
Logan-“Just promise me one thing”
Me-“What?”
Logan-“While I’m in Oklahoma…don’t find anyone new”
Me-“I won’t, don’t worry. Will you find anyone in Oklahoma?”
Logan-“No, I only want you.”
Me-“Well, I only want you too”

yeah..thats most of the convo..dont wannt make this too long. but the thing is...we're YOUNG. i turned 16 a month and a half ago, and he's 17 1/2 right now. and about oklahoma it's because thats where he's going to go to college. but like..what am i suposed to think? do you think he's just saying it...or do u think he might mean it? im head over heals for this guy and i dont want to fall too hard if he's just going to use his words to use me or something. what to do..what to do? please help me..

five months on and off......that's a lil tricky....but i think he's tellin u the truth...by the way he's talkin to u....me and bf have been goin out for a year...but we dont tlak about future....im only 13 and he's 15 so yea

i think he is telling the truth girl give him the chance to prove that he is ..

Well the whole on and off thing makes it a bit tricky, but it sounds like he's telling the truth. Guys normally aren't that corny unless they mean it.

you guys still dunno what 'll happen in futrue--so we don't hav any answers for sure--

you never know wat games will the future play with your hearts--

[sori if it didn't help--jsut a reminder--
non of us know what future brings--its up to you to se, so don't make any promisses that you don't know you can kep it our not] for future is unseen--

BEAWARE!!--hahahha muuuhahahahhaha--

Maybe being on and off has made him realise that he really wants to commit himself to you and no more silly break-ups. I won't tell you it's to soon to talk about marriage cos i was 17 when i got engaged but make sure it's what you want if you make it official like i did.
He seems to genuinely care for you so i wish you both the best of luck
*Gem*

I think he's telling the truth but he could just be playing you. Had that happen many times before. Just take it one day at a time~

well a few days ago we were hanging out again..and then he brought it up again. so i thought..hmm ok. again...maybe? and he put his ring on my finger (though it was occupied by a diff ring) and he said it was an ugly pre-engagement ring..but then he took it off..so idk what that was supposed to mean. lol. but anyway...thank u guys so much...but i have another question...well like...when we're at school...we hardly talk at ALL! i mean...maybe a few words. when we are alone we look like the perfect couple...talking our hearts out...all close and what not. at school. we look like we hardly know eachother...let alone going out. we hang out like 20 ft apart from eachother at lunch...w/ our own group of friends..and i was lookin over at him and he and his friends were TALKING ABOUT ME...hmm...guys..questions. when u boys are talking about a girl and pointing at her and what not...what do u tend to be talking about?...im kind of scared lol

well i have been in a relationship for 2 years and some odd months, my man told me the same thing and I believed it( about the marriage and we are pretty much ingaged.. i know engaged at 16 kinda odd but hey its working!) ... and dont feel bad cody and I hardley talk at all in school... it freaks me out sometimes when he talks to his friends about me, the thought of it being something bad runs through my head constantly..im pretty sure every girl does that though... but if he is being truthful about wanting to be with you and marry you then im pretty sure if you ask what they were sayin he will tell you. good luck!

lol yea i asked him. they were talking about video games. lmao im so paranoid. i totally thought they were talking about me.

Eh, don't freak out about being paranoid, I'm the same way.... but I would just be careful, I mean, after all, your still in school, it's really sweet, and he sounds like he means it, but just be careful, I'm not saying they will, but his feelings could change later on in time, I'm not saying they are going to, but they could, so just be careful and enjoy the times you spend with him. Have fun and be yourself. I'm glad for you!!! ^_^ Hope this helped, even a little bit....

yeah i kno that most teen things donr last forever..but i DO know ppl who have. i guess ill just have 2 wait and see what happens in the future...i just know that he means the world to me..i even maed a video and put it on youtube about him lol. but...that's why im scared to get attached..i dun wanna get my heart broken again. BUT i'd really like to thank every1 for answer...whether it be yes or no. and u guys made me feel good about this so yeah..thanks:)

does ne1 else have any opinions..id like to just hear more...possibly....thanks.

Maybe he means it right now, and he thinks he's telling the truth.

However, if you're both young, chances are it won't happen. Sorry, but the odds are against you. Good luck.

If you both believe it can work and you love each other, it will.
I'm only 18 and Marcus is 19 and we're getting married in 2008
So age means nothing if it's love.

:) thanks. and i wish u n marcus the best:)

hey guys...um. i made a video for him for valentines day...because idk i just wanted to do something nice..i spent a long time on it..and i was wondering..if some of u guys culd maybe check it out...if u wanna...like..um ill put the link from youtube up...thanks:)

He's lying ..
he's a guy
thats what he does
he's telling you everythink he thinks you want to hear
have you slept with him?
if not..he's tryin to get in your pants.
if you have..
he's just keepin you around until you get old or he finds some other girl he hasn't slept with yet
i know..
i've been there..
the EXACT same situation
the same conversation
over and over again
he tells me he loves me wants me blah blah blah im the only one
whatever..it all turned out to be a lie
he turned out to be a jerk
yours will too

ouch. lol ok. im sry u went through that. and no we have not slept together. he knows that im a virgin, and he was saying maybe we should leave it that way until we're married. idk u could be completely right and see thats y i was worried because i dont want that to happen and me end up getting hurt so bad. if he were to hurt me again idk what id do.....

i talked about marriage a lot with my past two serious relationships, i think they were too hot and heavy, and then they ended. it was TOO serious, too much focus on teh future. now i'm in a relationship, been together 1 1/2 years, and we don't talk about marriage...well we hint at it, and talk openly..but not specifics. I've realized that marriage should not be talked about with such bursts of feeling, its a serious thing. The divorce rates are incredibly high now, because not enough take marriage seriously. anyway, my point: i don't think you guy shsould be talking about marriage just yet, if you want to stick together through college...long distance relationships are hard, few work..but emphasis on few. some do work. sticking together, and plans of marriage...they are both very different. i think you should keep your options open while you're apart.

well guess what. 14 minutes ago he broke up w/ me. omg im in so much pain right now.

"He's lying ..
he's a guy
thats what he does
he's telling you everythink he thinks you want to hear
have you slept with him?
if not..he's tryin to get in your pants.
if you have..
he's just keepin you around until you get old or he finds some other girl he hasn't slept with yet
i know..
i've been there..
the EXACT same situation
the same conversation
over and over again
he tells me he loves me wants me blah blah blah im the only one
whatever..it all turned out to be a lie
he turned out to be a jerk
yours will too"
thanks for the sterotype.. not all of us guys are like that... As you can see some of us are.. but is it right to judge me based on something my brother did? I think not... Listen I know it's hard after he said all those things but there is someone out there for you there are guys that will love you and mean it.. there are guys that don't just want to get into your pants.. So just wait it out ok? You'll find the one.

yeah that was a bit of a sterotype i agree. thanks 4 the incouragement. ill try and wait it out but its really hard right now. and hes talking to me right now on the pc as if nothing happened and that really bugs me.

ya i would say he means it..... but make sure u stay in complete contact with him no matter how far he goes. Never let him feel tht you're not there for him. And keep expressing your feelings and have him do the same.

HE IS LIEING
IN THE END THEY ALL BREAK UR HEART
DON"T BELEIVE THE SWEET THIGNS THEY SAY
THEY JUST WANT U TO BELIEVE WHAT THEY ARE SAYING SO THEY CAN BE IN UR PANTS!

He's telling you the truth. He loves you. Or atleast he thinks he does. Or he likes that you're easy...or whatever. If that's cool with you, live it.
Except for "This is the happiest I have ever been in my life..."
That's a lie.
and that whole, "I only slept 2 hours last night..." probably had nothing to do with you.
Don't expect him to follow through on any of these future plans though.
Enjoy what you have now.
Pay no attention to jaded cynics.

HE IS LIEING
IN THE END THEY ALL BREAK UR HEART
DON"T BELEIVE THE SWEET THIGNS THEY SAY
THEY JUST WANT U TO BELIEVE WHAT THEY ARE SAYING SO THEY CAN BE IN UR PANTS!

^^ Thank you..
Exactly what I was saying..

if he were to hurt me again idk what id do.....

Wait a minute..
This guy has already hurt you before?
i'm assuming that's what the "again" part means..
Ok ..then that justifies everything i said.
if he hurt you before he'll definetly do it again.
i thought that the gut i was with wouldn't do it again..
but he did.
then i gave him another chance.
he did it again.
another chance.
again..
it happened that way about 6 times until just recently we haven't talked at all cuz i told him i didn't care about him which was a complete and total lie but it was the only way i could think of to stop the endless cycle of madness and heartbreak.
Trust me..he's a guy...he hurt you before..he WILL do it again..
don't believe a single word that comes outta that filthy lying mouth..