why am i this way

Saying "he found someone else" seems different than saying "he's screwing someone else." The first implies a deeper attachment, which he may not have.

The fact is, you're still really attached to him. It hurts to let go of that attachment, but it sounds like in this situation that's what you have to work on. Work on a healthy, trusting relationship with your current boyfriend, (preferably one that isn't just screwing, please) and maybe you'll find that he IS "right for you." If you can't do that, then maybe you shouldn't be with him, either. Your past relationship doesn't seem very healthy, just from what you've said here. Hope things go alright

i know this is late but yes it hurts to find out your love has found somebody else but dont put yourself down u have somebody else in your life who hopefully cares about u alot keep your head up dont cry and be strong dont surround yourself with negative vibe

i kno how you feel...but my situation is different.... my guy was my first at almost everything... my first kiss... my first time... the first guy i ever actually loved and then he went and cheated on me with a 12 year old... we had been dating for a while... but hes now 16 almost 17..and a 12 year old... thats so wrong...but i still love him with all my heart and soul... i cry my eyes out at skewl.. the teachers gave me a key for a room thats barely used so when i feel like cryin an being alone i just go there... i think that maybe u should tell him how you feel just to let him kno... that could maybe get some of those feelings out of you... and try to find someone that you feel like you can end up happy with... my ex is a druggie on everything imaginable and he got kicked out of skewl and hes not goin anywhere.. and the guy that i might possibly end up dating is an actor... he goes to my skewl and is the funniest person ever.. i faced the fact that ill never be over my ex but i have to move on... and so do you... if you stay like that then you'll not be very happy with your life...

seems like a jerk to me. Give it a month, tops, and you'll be over him even though right now you think that would be impossible. People always say that they'll never get over some idiot who "broke their heart", but they always, always do.

I think its easier to be angry instead of sad. You're not all "woe is me" all of the time. Everytime you do that, you basically demean yourself, making yourself feel worthless to a point to where you actually become some poor, pitiful sobbing annoyance. I personally can't stand people who whine about idiotic things constantly. Don't be like them!

But when you're angry, its not you that is a problem. You can focus that anger on anything in the world, as long as you can control it wisely enough. You still have all of this emotion to let out, but atleast you aren't pathetic.

You and this boy are over. The only reason to keep dwelling on him and crying over him is if you truly have a chance; not just to go out and mess with eachother again, but a chance to really BE something, ya know?