How shoud i feel??...

my ex cheated on me wit a 12 year old?? and hes almost 17... how should i feel?? disgusted cause he a petifile?? or sad angry and depressed cause he cheated??

Well, I don't think any of the choices are gonna be good. Me.. I would be disgusted, but thats just because I don't know the guy. You.. since you know him well (I'm assuming), I think its better to be sad, that way you aren't judging him so much.

Of course, happiness would beat both in a foot race!

in my opinion you should not feel bad put your head up and be happy ur not with that pervet guy ok

That's really disgusting and it's illegal. Forget about him, theres a million people out there.

move on.........what a creep btw lol

..Cheated, as in SEX?
That really -is- disgusting and you -should- consider him a paedophile. He's sick in the mind, you should stop dating him, and preferably report him to somebody.
x

You should feel what ever you want to feel towards him. You don't need other people to tell you how to feel, it sounds like you already know what he is.

~Kat~

if i were you i'd laugh out loud until ma bra falls of!!--hahaha!

lol--for a 12 yrs old gurl he left you?--hahahaha
no way!!--

well you'r suppose to fel confussed--co'z she's just 12--and y did he left u for 12?
u had more dan her--but y--lol

Well I was gonna come in here and ask the point of your question. Even if we did tell you how to feel, it doesn't necissarily mean that you would do as we say. If feelings were that easy, more of us would be happy.

Now that I've read why you posted that, I see that you were mostly just ranting. You already know how you feel, you just had to put it somewhere for yourself-and I can understand that.

If you want to find happiness out of this, just leave him, and tell yourself that it's just good that you found him out as soon as you did.. Things could be worse... And you might want to check on this 12 year old. My Gawd.

Anywho... Nobody can fix or make this any better but you and maybe that other girl. However, I'll still leave you with my best wishes.

i found out more about hte situation... i found out that he forced her to do anything he said cause it was - 45 C outside and she ran away and she didn't no newhere else to go... he never did anything like that with me... he wouldn't ever force me to do anything... well itis over... and i found out that another gurl had fucked him..pardon my french... and she was lookin for me at a basketball game... i dnt see how she knew i was there... it was so wierd.. i mean i ended our relationship but she wanted to kill me... i didn't kno bout her till that night... and soo many ppl now want to kill me.. idk wat to do bout this... but i feel sooo bad for brittney(the 12 year old) she told her sister who told my friend that told me that she left cause she felt bad for bein the other gurl and he made her feel like a whore... i honestly feel soo bad for her... and now im over him.. hes a effin pig.. and now im starting to believe my not so favorite person in the world.. she used to date frazer(the person this is about) and she said that he would hurt her if she didn't do wat he told her to... she was soo afraid of him she got her mom to dump him for her... then she started datin hes best friend... so im just saying i feel relieved in a way cause now that i think about it he made me feel like a whore somedays... it wasn't kewl and the used condoms my friend put all over his yard and in his bed... was just awesome.. frazer got in sooo much trouble for having used condoms in his bed... now he locks his bedroom window...lol

Rotfl I would have done something worse than just used condoms..... but I digress. He is a disgusting pedophile and a sick minded freak(and that doesn't even begin to cover it). He is going to end up in jail for abusing people and rape. That girl should have told the police about it. You are lucky you got away when you did.

Also, if I were you.. hehe bad things would happen.. oops, did that come out... you didn't read that, *wipes memory* but yeah.. sick minded freak, consider yourself lucky!! I'm glad things turned out for you!!! ^_^

you should feel disgusted, angry and totally forget about him unless he's realized his mistake

i'm with you honey,i hope he ends up in jail;)
if he does,tell us and we can celebrate it becouse of his disgustiness....he deserves it

Mad cause hes a freakin perv. NO ONE THAT IS 17 NEEDS A 12 YEAR OLD specially when hes already got you and umm number one the fact that he did that is disgusting!

Amanda

hes got a little something, something messed up upstairs if hes 17 and was wit a 12 year old. thats just. ughhh

i think you should feel all of them cause i would especially if he is almost 17 and she is waht 12 i mean come on....you can do better than that