Yep.. so I'm a loser.

For some odd reason, I really want a boyfriend. I feel so embarassed about it though, because It seems shallow to me. But I do.
I want something simple, but different. Someone to put their arm around that curved part of my waist when we sit.. someone who'll drive around for a couple hours just to sing along with deafiningly loud music.. maybe go to a couple football games, and give me a kiss on the forehead every once in a while. Seriously, is that so much to ask?
Problem is, it takes me such a long time to trust someone, anyone, that much. I can't be one of those girls who gets a new boy every 'x' amount of weeks. I put alot of individuality in the friendships I have now with guys, but its difficult. Plus, I tend to put every hopeful boy I meet in the "friend category." Maybe I think that they aren't good enough for me? I don't know.

Go out a little more often, meet new people. Don't start a relationship right away, get to know them first.

I agree with what Kori said, it really makes sense. If you want the kind of relationship you described, it would be best to get to know the person first. That usually makes for a stong relationship.

~Kat~

If she gets to know a guy she puts them in her "friends" category so I don't see how getting to know someone before hand would help, that would just mean more friends. The only way you're going to get into a relationship is to stop thinking of all guys as a friends and giving them a chance to be more.

Although you did bring up a good point, wouldn't it be harder to start a relationship without know much about the person then realizing that they really aren't what you thought at all, or just aren't what you are looking for. For some people having to break-up with the person after only a couple times of seeing them is just to hard so they stay in the relationship thinking that in the long run it is better, even though it really isn't.

~Kat~