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  • Black Rose
    17 years ago

    One of my 'Friends' is gettin really really close to my bf an he has cheated before when i notcied it that time i let it lay and then look what happend he cheated, should i trust him again? lay my heart down an see what happens cos i have tryed tellin him how i felt an he just gets arcey an shuts down. I DONT KNOW anymore what should i do i am nothing compred to her and he makes me feel schond best to her even though he says he loves me. my Gsces are Now and i can not put up with not knowing what he is doin all the time if he was with her what they where doin its been almost a year since he cheated now this.... am i not good enough for him

    what should i do with him please help me ?????

  • Black Rose
    17 years ago

    Please help i dont want this to happen again

  • idgaf
    17 years ago

    Dump him.
    If he's cheated, don't trust that he won't do it again, plus your friend isn't a very good friend if she's slowly working her way with your boyfriend.

  • Sean
    17 years ago

    Usually if you doubt his credibility, or your friends for that matter - you shouldn't be with either of them.

    relationships are about trust, without it the very foundation of that relationship crumbles i'm afraid.

  • kori
    17 years ago

    Dump him, and get rid of that friend of yours too. You can get better, there's a million people out there.

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    Hun, you are 100x's better than your "friend", who isn't much of a friend, if she is moving in on YOUR boyfriend!!!!! Trust me.. you deserve WAY better than both of them.. let me tell you something, once a cheater, always a cheater. He doesn't deserve a second chance, and neither does your "friend". So go get some new friends, slap your b/f, and hang out w/ people who love and respect you.

    You need a little more self worth than that...
    (Not to be rude!)

  • Black Rose
    17 years ago

    He does not see the line between friend and girlfriend he has always found it hard to make friends and he does not see the diffrence

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    If he can't find the line between friend and girlfriend, then you're best to just leave him. Until he figures that out, there will be constant problems.

  • ♥s|a|r|a|h♥
    17 years ago

    Once A Cheater Always A Cheater!!!

    This may sound harsh but get rid of him, you should have done it a long time ago...because now it'll hurt twice as bad if you find him cheating on you yet AGAIN!! trust me on this one ditch him before now and you will have the upper hand on him