Confused ~please help~

Hey, If anyone can..can you please help me?
Well, I'm a bit confused, I'm currently dating someone and I love him very much, but at the same time I still love my ex. I'm not in love with my ex but I still love him as a friend. My current boyfriend doesn't like me talking to my ex, because my ex still loves me, and he is afraid that I will break up with him to be with my ex. My current boyfriend wants to get married and I want to marry him also, but I still have feelings for my ex. I still cry about my ex and when my boyfriend ask me whats wrong I find it hard to tell him that I miss my ex. So instead of telling him that I still love my ex I tell him nothing is wrong. I'm afraid that he will be mad at me if I tell him that I still love my ex. I don't want to break his heart. I want to be with him more than anything and I'm scared if I tell him the way I feel about my ex, it will change the way he feels about me. I hate not being able to tell him about my ex, but I don't want to hurt him. I want so much to be able to tell him anything but it's too hard. How can I get over my ex, or tell my current boyfriend the way I feel? I don't want my ex back, but I still have feelings for him. I'm confused on what to do. Please help! Thanks for your time, it means alot to me.
Kasie

I had somewhat of the same issue, only on a much smaller scale. My girlfriend still had feelings for her ex, and she didn't know how to tell me. But everyone is different. Even though I took it lightly, that doesn't mean everyone will. There are some things that you want to do:

1. Tell him how you feel.
2. Make sure that he understands how you feel about him.
3. Make sure he knows that you wont leave him for your ex.
4. Try to avoid an argument, but get your feelings across.
5. Listen to what he says, and respond on it.

Good Luck

just tell him all youve written here and he'll learn there is nothing that he lose.

I want you to look at the amount of times you wrote the word 'ex' in reference to your ex! Are you certain you don't still want to be back there?

you cant be in love with two guys at once!! its almost impossible!!

it may be that you love your EX in a certain way that you love a best friend, you dont like being out of their company because you have a lot of things in common ANd that you were emotionally attached to each other in the past... but if you love your new boyfriend as much as you express there then i cant see you being in love with your EX just probably missing his company.

dont tell your current boyfriend anything about your EX because this will make him even more paranoid about you leaving him... just spend time getting to know him and sonner or later you'll find that you'll have stopped thinking about your ex as much

hope this helped

Well it's not that I'm in love with my EX. I love him as a friend. And it hurts me because my fiance doesn't want me to talk to him. I have been friends with my current for a while. We have dated beofre but he moved, and we didn't want a long distance relationship. He just recently proposed. I hate not being able to tell him about my Ex, but like y'all said, "it's not best to tell him". I'm just the kind of person who likes to have an honest relationship. He knows something is bothering me, and it hurts him because I wont tell him. But I don't love my ex...well only as a friend. I've kind of stop thinking much about him, until he calls me. It hurts me to talk to him anymore. He cheated on me with another girl, and now he wants me back. He gets mad because I wont break up with my fiance to be with him. But anyways I just wanted to tell y'all that you helped a great deal.
Thank you
Kasie