should i give up on love?

ive been hurt a lot and it feels like it never stops in relationships. i have a new bf but we might be moving a bit to fast for my liking. what should i do? if i tell him, he might think im just pushing him away. wait..am i pushing him away?

how moving to fast? if u dont feel comfrtable telling me here emaqil me at lovely-cassie@hotmail.com im always up ofr a little chat!! :)

But ya dont give up on love but do what feels right to you!

Ayee` . You can always look back on your past to remind your`self of the mistakes -- But never let it get in the way of a blooming relationship . Tell him how you honestly feel -- It`ll make him feel trusted . If he feelsl ike you`re pushing him away, explain to him that you just wanna take it a bit slower cuhs` yur not fully ready for a full-on relationship .

..__MiNDYY

I know it's said too much but if he's not willing to slow down the relationship because you're feeling a little uncomfortable then he's not probably not "the one", so just let him know and he should understand.

No, that doesn't mean you're pushing him away. He should respect you if you tell him that. When I told my boyfriend he was moving too fast for me, he seemed to have a whole new respect for me.

when i say moving too fast i mean we've been dating for almost a month and dont get me wrong, i know i love him but i guess thats what im scared of...love has hurt me before so i guess im scared it will do it again. something tells me that ur right when u say not to let the past interfear with the present. hes a great guy and i shouldnt let him go. its just that sometimes it feels like things get tough with him eaisly because we fight an awful lot for an early blooming couple. poeple say its because we both have dominate personalitys but idk.

How`s that moving fast ... ? Sweetheart, when you love somebody, you gotta shove away your standards, and your fear . If you`re afraid for the rest of your life, you`ll never find love again . If you trust him, stay with him . Don`t let a good guy go cuhs` of fear . I did that six months ago -- I regretted it so much . Don`t let that hapen to you . In relationships, you`ll always have arguements . Whether it`s in the beggining, the middle, or you`ve been together since forever . You`ll learn to work them out . You`ll learn to get along and respect each others` opinions . And you`ll learn to love again .
..__MiNDYY

fighting so early on is not a good sign at all, but if you love him...keep trying and assuming you both want to continue the relationship, then you'll work things out i'm sure. good luck.

thanks mindy that rlly helped me. i rlly appricciate that.

never give up on love. its pointless and most likely it won't last.