I am so freaking confused .

Okay, so this guy & i are going out, right ? We really like each other , the problem is -- I don`t want a relationship . Like it felt right, but now it just seems wrong . We smiled more BEFORE we went out, and seemed a lot closer . Now it`s like . AH , y`knowe what I mean ? It`s like, I wanna be with him, but not with him WiTH HiM . Casual Dating sort of ? But I can`t tell whether it`s because I`m afraid of a relationship, I feel like I`m being tied down, or because I don`t wanna stick to just one guy . [Okay that came out wrong .] Or for some other reason that I don`t know . So I wanna like ... Think about it some more . And like go out with him when I think I`m ready . But how do I say that to him ? What`s yur opinion ? Do I tell him that, or just let it roll and see how it goes ?
**PS . We haven`t been going for a long time . And I MEAN that no joke . Like literally . Hasn`t even been a week .

I've been there. Everything is going well.. flirting and eye contact and such.. you get to know the guy and you start to like him. Same thing happens to him.. then he asks you out and suddenly you don't feel so.. lighthearted about it? You start acting distant and he gets confused?

Problem is, if you tell him, he'll think you didn't really like him from the start, and that'll just hurt his feelings, maybe piss him off, even.

If you do like him, and just think this is a temporary thing, then I would wait it out a little while longer. HOWEVER, if you notice that you aren't feeling differently, just break up with him. the sooner, the better. That way there's not a bunch of crap involved. Plus, it's better that both of you actually be happy, rather than pretend to be.

Hii. well i think that you shoudl explain how you feel about him make him understand what you feel and if he can't understand and accept it then hes not a great guy.. but just elt him know he'll be more pissed if you don't tell him how you feel and then lead him on and thne break his heart later.. thats my shout out
Ainz