I don't understand???

why are guys so confussing???I mean like ok me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7 months and he tells me he loves me and all this stuff and i love him but like he doesn't email me he doesn't call me when i saw he can call me. like so what should i do??? is he into me or am i just some gurl toy????
Ainz

but then when I call him its liek everythings ok.. and your boyfriend may be alot different than mine.. but thanx anyways...

Guys aren't confusing. They're actually very, very simple.

Most of them don't think to call you or email you unless you specifically ask them to. It has nothing to do with how much they care about you, it just doesn't cross their mind to call you.

If when you call him, and everythings okay, then you have nothing to worry about. If it's THAT big of a deal to you, then explain it to him, and perhaps he'll make more of an effort.

yeah my bf...and my exbf...neither of them would call me unless there was a specific time and reason. i dont think its that big of a deal...but if it is..just ask him why he never calls/emails you 1st.

We'll usually call someone if we have a specific reason such as going out that night or wanting to know if someone is busy coming up, but other than that most guys don't call someone just to talk even if they do love them.

Although calling someone just to talk isn't really needy per se, some guys see it as that. Society tells us that it's okay for a girl to be needy (to a certain extent!), but guys are suppost to be more independent. I'm not saying this is true but it is what a lot of guys think.

On top of that we tend not to express our emotions as well, this means that when we have a bad day at school or work instead of wanting to talk to someone about it we usually do something to take our minds off of it. I'm sure this isn't true with some guys, but I know that I would rather play pool with friends after a hard day then talk to them about what went wrong.

Hehe, Marcus takes ages to text me back (if he even does) when i text him.
It doesn't mean, he doesn't love me, it just means he doesn't see the need to.
I'll see him later, whats the point in wasting a text? lol
Have a chat with him if it's really buggin you.

if u think tht way, then jus talk to him and make i clear cuz sometimes it might be nothing. Like they can do tht for stupidest reason like they're lazy or dont feel like goin on computer n replyin to ur email. Or maybe they jus wanna annoy u or tease u. So jus talk it out with him.

Well I never call my girlfriend at all hardly.. because well guys when we talk on the phone our conversations usually never last even 5 min. so when you expect us to call you and have loads to say we are utterly speechless.. and well silence is just akward lol.. But me and my girlfriend text alot so it is kinda like talking on the phone but it's slower and the silence isn't akward ^.^ hope giving you a guys point of view has helped