Need GUYS advice

  • Alissa
    17 years ago

    I'm not a guy but I have an idea about this.
    I think that if you really like this guy, you should tell him. You can't wait forever for him to tell you, it's completely fine for a girl to say how she feels.
    In my opinion, I think you should just tell him straight up, if you can't do that; drop hints.
    And the other thing, him talking about another girl with you?
    What I think is that, he trusts you a lot, enough for him to let out his feelings. I think that maybe he just needs to know how you feel for him because he wants to let go of this other girl, just he wants to with a good enough reason, you.

    I don't think you should stop yourself from your emotions, just let them flow out. And everything happens for a reason.

    Alissa

  • Tony E
    17 years ago

    I think it's a lot easier for a girl to tell a guy how she feels. The only reason being that a guy isn't going to go tell someone what you said afterwards. We don't talk to eachother about that kind of stuff, if someone says they like you and you don't feel the same that's usually the end of it (at least me and my friends never talk about that). However (correct me if I'm wrong), girls will usually talk to their best friends about that, and soon enough people start finding out you were rejected.

    Basically I wouldn't be really worried about telling him you like him. If the answer is no, as long as he's like most guys it shouldn't get much farther than that.

  • we_all_live_to_die
    17 years ago

    Well as a guy if a girl has feelings for me I would love for her to just straight up tell me.. I mean I may say sorry I don't like you or sorry I have a girlfriend or something but for me I wouldn't think any less of you.. So my advice would be just tell him I mean just like you would have any conversation I mean if he is your friend and says no then just ask him to forget about the whole thing and still just be friends.. and if he doesn't like you then don't be crushed or anything cuz well there are always more.. just if he says no try not to bring it up again and again lol sorry if that was a little confusing hope it helps