How can I meet the love of my Life?

  • Alissa
    17 years ago

    I have fallen in love with someone amazing. We met here, on the internet, on p&q.
    He is really amazing, we were freinds for over 4 months then he asked me to be his girlfriend on dec 11, 2006. We are sill together and it's been amazing. He is the sweetest guy ever but he lives far away. I live in Vancouver and he lives in Ottawa. It's still Canada but far. We want to meet soon, but we are still young and I don't know how. We talk everyday, we tell eachother everything, but I want more. I love what I have but how can we meet eachother for real?

  • Tony E
    17 years ago

    You're 14, be careful! I'm not saying that he's not who he says he is, but if you do end up meeting with him make sure it's in a public place with friends nearby just in case (if you have a few older male friends that would probably be best seeing as they would be able to stop something).

    I didn't mean to scare you but you hear so many stories and you always wonder how it could happen with what we know.

    Anyway I don't know why you are asking us how you could meet in real life, that's completely up to you. If you can't afford to meet eachother than there is only one choice and that is to stay together online. Otherwise meet, just make sure you are careful.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    In my opinion, 14 is way too young to be meeting guys off the internet in real life. I wouldn't even do it myself, and I'm three years older than you.

    Like Tony said, there are so many stories, and it's not really a safe thing to do.

    If you want to talk to him, and be his online girlfriend or whatever, then go ahead. But please don't go meet him for a long, long time. It's not worth the risk.

  • xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex
    17 years ago

    I met my girlfriend at 14 on the internet too. It was a wonderful experience.
    We met a year and eight months after dating.. It was the most wonderful feeling ever.

    14 is very young to fall in love..But, it can happen. Meeting is a very cautious thing, though. Take someone with you you know well; I had someone with me. I would wait awhile, however, and make sure it's what you both won't. Don't rush things; you need to take this time to get to know each other properly, thus you don't have to speak a thousand words when you're together. You can just sit in silence holding each other.

    Take care. And best of luck. If you ever need any advice, contact me. xx

    xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex