Brakeup but confussed

Right i had been fightin with my exb now for a while so i pushed him to brake up cos i had tryed the week before but he did not really get what i had donw so i tiook it back.
Now however we arepast all the pain bit just but we keep messin around with each other like play fighting that we had stopped doin when we was toghethr but its been fun but when i ever we get close youknopw you have to when play fighting all i want to do is kiss him but i Dont at the same time and it hurts me. the only way i can see a way for it to stop is to lose him as a mate but i really dont want that to happen :s im so confussed

I think you should just spend some time being away from him completely. Maybe you can try to have a normal friendship again in a few months, but for now it's not helping you at all. Just explain that you would like to spend some time with other friends, and work on getting over him. After some time you should be able to be friends with your ex, and not still have the urge to kiss him.