Am I setting my self up for a heartbreak?

She's right. No one else can make this decision for you.

I don't want you to base this decision on what I say it is up to you, but if you don't let your gaurd down you'll never know how good it could be. The problem is you may get hurt, but I think we all have to take that chance in order to experience true love.

If you're worried, then the safest bet is to take it slow. Especially if you guys are planning to live together and everything, you have plenty of time to worry about that stuff. So just have fun for now, and take it slow. Well that's my opinion anyhow, but really only do what you feel is best for you :)

Everytime we fall in love, we run the risk of getting hurt. It's not just with our partners. We run the risk of getting hurt when we love our friends, our famillies...
If you never let your guard down and embrace love, you'll never know how great it can be.
Sure in the future you may get hurt.. but you might not and you'll never know unless you try.
It's scary i know, i was in this position at one point too, but isn't it worth trying? For all the joy that you could have? Isn't it worth finding out?
The choice is yours...
Good luck
*Gem*

Yeah, love is all about taking risks. It's up to you whether you decide to jump or not. Do what feels right and what your heart is telling you to do.