help me!!!

  • silent eyes
    17 years ago

    i need help. my ex boyfriend who i still care alot about tried to commit suicide. he blamed it all on me and said he couldnt believe he believed all my lies o that i ever loved him. if i stop talking to him im afraid hell do something stupid but i cant take this much longer. i cant sleep because im afraid of waking up and him being dead. plus his family is blaming me too. hes hurt me so much in the past but id rather sacrifice all my life of happiness for him to be alive one more day. i just dont know what to do. he got me messed up. please help

  • Kalee
    17 years ago

    I dont have any experience in this, but I think you really need to talk to your ex and tell him about why you what you did and that you still care about him. Sometimes guys just dont get the way we feel. I also think that you need to talk to his parents. If he has tried to commit suicide you really shouldn't stop talking to him, he might just need someone to talk to about how he has been feeling and what has been going on inside his head. If you need more help feel free to email me at lifeisworthlivingsoliveit@gmail.com

  • Monica AKA Mika
    17 years ago

    Alright i know exactly what is goin on cuz i guess you can say this has happened to me.. i think you should talk to him and jus make sure you get the point across that you need him here and that life really isnt that bad..tell him that he's here for a reason and everything tell him exactly how you feel and how he is making life hard for you too! Make sure you just be nice dont yell dont argue or anything he is at a very sensitive stage right now all he needs his someone to talk to he just wants to make sure that you care he wants to see WHO cares and he wants you back! So just talk.....before its too late!

    Love always
    Monica aka mika

  • MEGZ is wondering what to do about life
    17 years ago

    i also have been in this situation except i was in his place..... ic ouldnt understand why he would hate me so much...... but hey dont give up hope all i really wanted was to know he still cared that someone still cared that there was a reason worth living you need to talk to him and let him know this if not it maybe to late...... if you need more on what he may feel email me at megano126@yahoo.com i would like to know how it works out to...... ehy when my guy told me that he was still there for me and he still cared we got back together and now are completely happy and are engaged and have been for a little over three months.....
    megs

  • silent eyes
    17 years ago

    sorry i havent been on. he went to the fifth floor and now hes out again. idk how hes doing because im not allowed to talk to him. i hope hes ok though
    THANKSS EVERYONE!!