Any advice appreciated

  • DeathsRose
    17 years ago

    My fiance broke up with me last Sunday because of something stupid I did. He appologised on Wendsday and said that it wasn't all my fault and that he wanted me back. I told him it would be better if we just stayed friends for now. The thing is that I am kind of interested in 2 other guyes that go to my school (my ex does not). They both seem nice and they both seem like they also like me, but I havn't told either of them I like them as much as I do because I still have feelings for my ex. I don't want to go back with my ex right now because we need to work things out (but we are still friends). I just don't know what to do.

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    hmmm i unno i would say get back with your ex if you two were engaged he wants to spend his life with you so yes i think you should get back with your ex

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    If you are interested in two other guys, then maybe you shouldn't get back with your ex cause it looks like you aren't ready for that kind of comitment (marriage). Other than that, I don't know what to tell you, sorry if it wasn't much help

  • Tony E
    17 years ago

    I have to agree, if you are interested in two other guys you are not ready for marriage and there is no way your ex is the one for you (if he was there would be no doubt in your mind and you wouldn't be interested in TWO other people). However, you can't just start dating people right after breaking up with your fiance, that's horrible and would probably kill him. If you truly care about him you can't move on until you're sure he's okay with it (which might be a very long time if he wanted to spend the rest of his life with you, but I think that's the only way)

  • kori
    17 years ago

    My only advice: DONT GET MARRIED.

    Your heart will decide whats best for you. I don't think that you're ready for marriage since you like two other people.

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Don't keep him hanging on, it isn't fair. You were engaged to this guy, if you loved him at all, you'd tell him that you were interested in someone else, he desereves to know.
    If i was in your situation with Marcus, i'd feel awful keeping him in the dark about something that big.
    You can't keep him waiting around. Work it out or tell him it's over for good, it's not fair leaving him waiting to see if he has a chance.
    Think
    *Gem*

  • ms.understood
    17 years ago

    if he was going to spend all his life with you, i doubt anything you could have done would of made him take that bac if he meant it...

  • DeathsRose
    17 years ago

    I don't think I am going to go back out with him as of right now. I do like 2 other guys but I am not going to go out with them right now. I am still friends with my ex and he hangs around with them (and me) alot...so...I don't want to hurt him like that.

    And what did I do? Well he was doing something that pissed me off and he didn't realize it, so when he wanted to talk to me I was like yelling at him and refusing to tell him why I was mad...then I accidently called him a bad name...and hurt his feelings and made him storm off...only for him to appologise to me like 3 days later (even though he wasn't in the wrong).