help plz! I cant stop liking him! and hes my best friend

I cant stop liking my best friend no matter how hard i try i cant stop thinking about him! i text message him like every day and i only get on msn to talk to him...he knows i used to like him but he has a gf...i dunno i just wanna no if anyone whoz been through this has any advice on how to stop liking some1...cause im just hurting myself by liking him so much...should i just stay away from him?
Help plz =(
Luv FallenxFromxGrace

dat has happen to me also-- but--i got used to it-and ya i couldn't the love---but the time went by--i didn't did anything--but what he wanted me to do--{i did nth haha}---but as time went by--so did ma feelings--dat is after a year!

hmm yea ive liked this guy for nearly three years...it goes away for a while but then it comes back....and hes always around and were so close he tells me im like a sister...which in a way makes it worse... i dunno i guess i will just have to get used to it thanx for ur help!

Iim actually going through the same thing right now.. And to tell you the truth I don't think you can ever stop liking him . It does go away for awhile if you don't talk for a while . But once he comes around again every thing comes back and some times it just makes you like them more... . Good luck on that hopefuly evey thing turns out ok :D

You'll probably never stop liking him, I am in the same situation and the only thing you can do is try to stay busy to keep your mind off of them. If you go out with people, play sports, anything that will keep you from thinking about him it will help a lot.

Thing is, if you feel strongly about him you need to let it out. I know, he has a girlfriend, hoo haa- but if he's your best friend, known you for longer- then I'd tell him.

Ok, maybe I wouldn't- but it's better soon than late and never. You never know- maybe he knows you still have feelings for him, and he feels the same way but is reluctant to show it. You need to be the bigger person and take the first step.

Good night and good luck.x :]

I don't think you can make yourself stop liking him. You can't really choose who you like, but you can choose to do something about it.

Sorry if that doesn't help very much (I'm having the same problem, like a lot of people. And that's the advice my friend gave me)

thanx guys...yea thats true every1 tells me to "get over it" but i keep telling them when u really like some1 its not that easy...but i think i'll just keep going and act like normal and hopefully eventually the feelings will fade

sadly this is where time will have to take place but no matter waht be there for him.

You can't just get over it. Their your feelings & you can't make them just disappear. I know how this feels. All I can say is it takes time. It may seem like it's impossible not to feel those feel

Not to feel those feelings, but over time they'll soon change. Sorry I can't give better advice. But I was in this situation so I can relate a little.

Stephanie Lynn .+.

Yeah, I'm going through the same thing to and it's tearing me apart. And he also knows that I'm crazy about him and it hasn't helped. No, you can't just 'get over him' I'm hoping all it takes is time. I'm trying to keep myself occupied and not letting myself think about it but it isn't easy. When you're ready to let go I suppose the feelings will fade until then though just try keep your mind of it. Goodluck hun it's not easy.