Ironic... isn't it?

well ok let me se eif i understand ...u guys arent currently sexually active but were planin gon it once u were done with schol and got married .. but now a friend of hers has suggested the idea of not ever being intimate ?? not sure if tahst correct but why would anothers opion affect ur gf if u were planning on a family how come shes backing out now have u spoken to her about it thre is no greater joy then having children and being intimate with teh one u love ..i guess best thing 4 u to do is to b completely honest about how u feel and what u wnat in the future and ask why she feels the way she does on things .. communication is key to all .. wlel i know i wasnt much help =( but i hope things go well 4 u and ur gf ..

oo wlel i now saw taht ur 14 so not saying ur too yng to b in love and plan 4 a future but if ur gf is ur age as well u both have sooo much time to decide on all that thers plenty of time to plan 4 ur future and a family now that should actaully b the last of ur worries especially if ur both wnating to wait till after college neway but still i wish u both the best of luck and hapiness and whatever is meant to happen 4 u will ..

hey ok wlel even at 16 u guys tsill have alot of time if ur planing to wait till after colege. but def talk abou tit and of course ur gonna b botherd if she plans on never wanting to b intimate and have children of ur own its only naturla to want to b intimate with the person u plan on spending the rest of ur life with.but 4 now i wouldnt swaet it taht much theres stil alot of time between then and now and nehting caould happen u know so good luck .