why is that

you say you don't care about a person but then you have worte a poem that you wna to delete or something you want to delete from your mind but you can't delete that either. Is it love what is it. It gets me upset when i see him kissing or huging or doing womthing or hearing something about a guy you really loved or maybe still loved. Why is that. I just i am so depressed lately that i can't stop thinking about him and i can't do anything withoutr thinking or a memory coming back that reminds me of him and you just get more and more depressed because you don't know what to do with you life or anything with out thinking of that guy or seeing him. Has this happened to you. I am i in love? I don't understand this i have never felt this way to a guy before and i just don't know could you tell me what is wrong with me.

bless be
Ami
thanks all

Nothing is wrong with you it is completly normal to be thinking of one' that you loved. I been through it myself, and I am sure almost everyone has, it is totally normal to keep thinking of that person that you love or did love. Just because you or the one' you loved break up doesn't mean that you still don't have feelings for that person, or memories of that person. I have come to realize that don't matter how good or how bad a relationship is you will always remember and have memories of them with you. You are fine, it is normal. You just have to stay strong and keep your head up, you will get through it.

Peace, Joe

thw thing is i didn't have a relatiopnship with this person he was a really close friend of mine and he gave me my first kiss and got my hopes up and i don't know what to do because it makes me cry when i think of him idc what people say i never had a relationship or anything i just reall really felt like i love him alot and i don't know what to do.

Ok, well in this case, tell him how you feel. Letting it out and telling someone how you feel will make you feel much better, trust me on this. Talk to him about, see how he feels, you never know, maybe he feels the same about you.

Peace, Joe

i told him how i felt before and it didn't work. he has a g/f now and he is ingoring me and i was talking to a friend and she was going to ask him why he is doing this and he ignored her too. and i just started crying and i still couldn't do anyhitng about it.

Well perhaps, He is not a true friend then, friends can always talk don't matter what the occasion is. I don't care if he has a g/f or not if you say he is a friend, he should start acting like one. Obviously he doesn't care that much for you if he is not talking to you and letting you sit there and cry. If I where you, I forget about him, he doesn't deserve someone as good as you, move on and find someone that really cares.

Peace, Joe

I agree, not much of a friend if he doesn't care that he hurt you.. I agree with everything stated above me, because you do deserve better, and trust me, I know moving on is hard, but you have to do it, because it sounds harsh, but he obviously doesn't have feelings for you, and that hurts worse than anything, I know. But it's for the best if you move on, I hope this helps.
Much Love and best of luck
~*Danielle*~

but the thing is i can't move on. I tried but there is never anyone to move on too. I never had b/f before. He is still my friend. I still care alot about him today i started to cry for the fact that i told my self i hated him but my heart still loes him no matter what i do to try and get rede of it. it is just to hard no matter what i do.

bless be

hey i kinda can see why ur feeling the way u are etc... and it totally natural...it hurts more beause he gave u ur first kisS!! BUT thing is i HAD a best friend who were a bloke.. we not talking atm...... which is bit pants but hey he made his bed so he can now lay in it...
anyway yeah nothing ever happened between us but we were so close talk bout everything n anything.... n he felt so much for me yeah i oved him to pieces n woodnt let no one hurt him no matter how he treated me in past i still woodnt n ill always care for him.... but he cared more for me and when ever i got with someone he hated it etc.......

you will be fine and you will find someone... they say no guy is worth your tears but thing is there woodnt be laughter with a guy if there no tears..... you 2 were jus meant to be mates nothing more!!

u said he aint talking to u since u told him how u feel right??????? well wen my old best mate gave me hints he liked me i pushed him away etc!! so he pushin u away because he loves u as a friend n he has a gf!

time is a great healer and youll forget him some day soon..... i no it hurts... wen a girl likes n gets with a bloke they tend to fall much much quicker than the boy so wen things nt go right the girl gets hurt more and cant let it go jus like tht!! so try doing something tht will make u feel gd wen ever hyou think of him and itll stop u thinking about him.....

but youll find someone and best thing u can do is leave him be for while.....

youll see when one door shuts another door opens!!

take care