y r guys so confussing?!

  • ms.understood
    17 years ago

    ok so i broke up with my military bf but then i went to his myspace and face book pages and saw all his pics and read sum stuff he wrote and realized that i miss him...well i asked him back out and he said yes...i went on his face book and saw he was listed as in a relationship on the 20 of last month and weve only been back together for two days...i really missed him and i wanted him back but not if hes gona play mind games and hes out on the field training in korea so its not like i can just call him up now and be like, hey whats this all about.
    im just so confussed...any military gf/bf or just anyone with advice?id really apriciate it...

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Did you stop to think he may not have changed his status on that site?
    It does slip peoples minds, especially if they have a demanding job like the military.
    I kept my status on myspace as 'single' for the first three months i was going out with Marcus simple because... i forgot to change it.. oh my god!! =/
    He doesn't sound like he's playing mind games, it just sounds like you're making issues out of nothing. Sorry for being harsh, but you're being paranoid for no reason. You're going out with him again aren't you? Be happy with that.
    *Gem*

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    So he's a few days off, cut him some slack. It's just some stupid internet site, he probably hasn't had time to update it or something. Guys aren't confusing, you're just being over-dramatic.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    No offence intended..

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    You can't expect people to do things right off the bat. He's in the military for god's sakes. He can't jump on the computer at any given moment and that. My big internet brother was in the Army in Iraq and sometimes I wouldn't talk to him for days at a time. I'm trying to not be negative but I think he passed away because he went missing since Christmas 2005. So yeah. irrelevant but still military people can't always be on the internet to change just one little bitty thing. Maybe he forgot to change it.