????So how do i just take it slow????

  • Monica AKA Mika
    17 years ago

    Alright so i met this guy named Ricky at this picture place he was the one taking the picture actually and he said that he has never seen a girl like me and that it was his first time talking to any girl at work and his boss ( girl friend of mine) said it was true and so far we have been talkin for 4 days and i like him a lot but i dont wanna rush anything cuz i really want this to work out cuz hes not like me ex boyfriends he asks me different questions like my favorite movie or tv show and favorite animal and color and nothing about sex at all he is really jus trying to ge to no me not get in my pants. We're goin out on saturday hes coming to my house so hes gonna have to met my parents and then to the movies and Valentines day is coming up should i get him something should i expect something i mean he told me that if i dont expact anything then he is going to get me something should i except it? He is really a sweet guy so please let all of your comments be nice but be honest too! You know he took a copy of one of my pictures n hung it next to him bed cuz he said i was beautiful face to look at when he goes to bed and when he wakes up in the morning he is so sweet and he's for real too!!!!!How do i make it work???

  • Jeremy B
    17 years ago

    You should be friendly with this guy, but don't just treat him like you would any of your other guy friends. Make sure he knows you think he's special. You do need to take it slow, but there is more to a relationship than sex. And some people actually do wait until they get married to have sex. He may be afraid to make the first move, like a kiss goodnight or something of the sorts. Just hit towards little things and pray he picks up on them. If not, make the first move. Just go slow and be gentle. He probably could be a lot of fun to hang around and go out with.

    I wouldn't expect a Valentine's gift from him, but he might still get you something. Just don't be too disappointed if he doesn't. I would go ahead and get him something, just don't go out and buy him a new car! Get him a card or something small. Even things bought at the dollar shop mean a lot when received from someone you like. Good luck on the date.

  • Manda
    17 years ago

    he's a cheeseball