i dont know what to do about the boy i love

i love this boy named sam and well we went out and i broke up with him. then i relized that i didnt want to brake up with him i was just mad at him but what was done was done. and i tryed to talk to him about it and we have talked and well he likes me but he says i dont deserve anouther chance. this hurts really bad becuz i want to be with him so badly. now this aaron guy likes me and asked me out and all my friends told me to say yes and it would help me get over sam. well ever scine me and aaron have been going out i keep compairing our relationship to the one me and sam had and i cant help it. i like being with aaron but i would rather be with sam. i dont know what to do. it seams as in sam is getting upset at me becuz people keep bothingering him about me and i tell them not to. i want to be with sam so badly what can i do to make him understand? should i just leave him alone? what should i do? so if anyone out there could help me i would aprsate it so much thank you for your time.
Sahra

Hello Sahra. You say that 'it (seems)...sam is getting ypset at me becuz ppl keep bothering him aobut me,' but do u know that for a fact or is that speculation??? Even if it is true, how would you feel if someone kept bugging you about someone you use to love, but can't have. Wait sorry, i was going to say follow ur heart and be with Sam, but i just realised that he said to you that "i don't deserve another chance." That is all you really need to know to decide who you should be with because it is clear, that Sam has cut you out of his life. Thus, it is futile to try and pursue him. I guess in this case, you CAN'T follow ur heart because you really don't have a choice. One poet in this forum once said that "Sometimes we want another person more than ever because we feel that we cannot have them". This could represent ur case.
Looks like i'm agreeing with ally and lil, Aaron is your man. You probably haven't spent as much time with Aaron compared with Sam, which is why ur feelings haven't grown for him, but also because u can't get over Sam. Give Aaron a chance because u don't want to break up with him and hurt his feelings like how Sam hurt u. Hope you find your answer. Good luck and take care! :)