age difference

well normally im all 4 age doenst matter but whoa!!!!!!!!!!!! hes 20 and ur 14 i really really dont advise u look into that ur jsut a lil girl and hes a grown man he could get in such incredible trouble not to mention i dotn think ur parenst will b ok with that.and just cause hes nice and helps u out doenst maen he has feelings 4 u if he wersk at the school ist his job to b nice i think id only make it very akward if u were to tell him u liked him itd b emabearrsing 4 him especially of ur age and im sure he woudlnt want to hurt yr feelings.well idk guess good lcuk but id not pursue it ur too yng still 4 a guy that age ur at diff places in life

I think you should just let this be a crush. I think honestly, it would be a lil weird for him:( just get the most out of it and try not to get your feelings hurt and expect things to happen.

I'm not sure from whence you hail, AnGeLgIrL, but as long as you're under 17 and you're in the United States, if a physical relationship were to occur between the two of you, he could get in considerable trouble. Perhaps even go to jail. At the least he would probably lose his position.

I hate to be grim, but you should consider that as well. If it's meant to be, then he'll still be there in 3+ years when the law won't have fit about it.

I would just like to say i fell in love at 13 the guy is 5 years older than me..He told me he loved me that just what I wanted to hear to..But in the end he is 20 and Im 15 now I still love him deep down but he REALLY hurt me BAD! and on top of that he is my BEST friends brother...I just would give the advise to WAIT....My parents almost put him in Jail ON TOP OF THAT...so think of how much this guy could get introuble...It isnt worth it if u REALLY DO love him...I would wait cause things get all messed up...I didnt talk to the guy for over a YEAR and he lived like 5 min away from me...we talk now but only like HI how are u type thing...so just think about it and wait is all I can say

hey could you guys help me out? Theres an age differenc between me adn this really nice guy. but the prob is that i havent ever takled to him. but i dated his bestfriend two years ago. now im 14 and really like different. this guy he is 16 and in the 11th grade at out local highschool. im really shy and i cant even talk to him. i have tow very good friends who tell me that he does like me andw atns to go out wit me but i want to be his friend first. but im scared that they are tryin to make me feel better about it all. b/c he might think that two years, andfrom 8th grade to 11th grade might be a big thing....but truth be told im told alot that i look like an 11th grader. but i dunno. the story is a long one and i think i mite be leaveing the most important parts out. but if uw ant to hear it all becase you might be able to help, IM me on yahoo at butterfly_wings_89@yahoo.com and just tell me that ur from the poem thing. or just email me at teh same address. i really need some help on this one...