Advice? Please

I had written a post the other day concerning a guy that I thought had cut me out of his life. I was wrong, he had just been having problems with work and didn't want to take it out on me.

But. Now we're still not talking as much, and I still have the theories of before...him losing interest, finding someone else, et cetera.

I am a paranoid person; this is just the way I think. So what should I do?

well if he has got thigs on his mind he maybe dont wanna put them on you tht is y he aint bn normal with you and pushed u away....
well either give him some time.... or talk to him n ask him straigt out... your only really thinking like tht because u obv like him loads... but no need to get too paranoid... because i seems like his job is borthering him...

jus maybe give him some space n time if he has things on his mind other wise he will walk away...

take care

Hey,
ive been in this position before, and to me it was just my paranoia setting in because he wasnt ignoring me and he hadnt lost interest he was just having problems but it did all go back to normal.

He may still be struggling with the problem so he cannot talk as much as he used to but give it time eventually the work problem will blow over and he will be back to his usual self with you.
but you could let him have the space and he may thank you for it, or you could ask him but be aware that extra problems with you may not help.
but i dont think hes gone off you from what you have just sed i reckon he is trying to get on with the problem but not totally blank you out of his life, so you are lucky that he is making that little bit of time for you, how big was the problem at work? thats if you know.
and as a plus he cant have gone off you if he managed to push you away so that it didnt affect you and you didnt end up getting hurt so i reckon that itself shows that he does still like you.

I think he cares, but just doesn't really wnat someone close to him for the problems he's having. Just be there for him, is all I gotta say.

Well i think all of us feel this way at one point or another! so don't think your just being weird or anything. If your in a ralationship with this guy don't you think yo should trust him? A relationship has to have trust in one another or things such as this happens.......you know the wondering the confusion.........the fighting. you know. and if his problem really is work than you need to set him down and talk to him. Tell him what u are feeling and tell him that if he needs some time to clear up himself your willing to work with that. And offer to help him anyway you can. :D

this happens all the tyme to me i mean it is kinda happening now but n e ways jus ask him thats what imma do ask him how he feels and if he still likes you or watever and jus wait and see i think these things take patience but sometimes there no time for that...Good Luck

Thank you all, it is very reassuring. But now I've another variable to add in.

I sent him a message this morning through MySpace asking him straight out if he still had interest. In your sent messages it tells you whether he has read it or not...and it said he had read it. Yet I received no reply...so. Tell me. What does that mean?